Sharon Reynolds MBACP

Sharon Reynolds MBACP


GU27 2AS


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GU27 2AS


About me


I am psychosexual and relationship therapist with over 20 years experience, working with couples, family groups and individuals.

In these fast paced days I can offer you my time, attention and genuine interest in your situation; working together with you to find different perspectives and a hopeful way forward.

I have comfortable and confidential space to see clients in Haslemere and from September 2018 in Farnham.

If you would like to discus whether or how therapy might be helpful to you, I would be happy to have this conversation with you.

Training, qualifications & experience

PG Dip Psycho-sexual therapy with Birkbeck University/Relate Institute
Certificate in Clinical Supervision, Relate Institute
PG Diploma in Applied Systemic Theory, The Tavistock and Portman NHS
Basic Drug Awareness Level 2, OCN
Certificate of Systemic Practice in Family Therapy, Relate Institute
Counselling Young People, Relate (Herbert Gray College)
Groups Skills (Theory & Practice) for Trainers Level 3, OCN
Certificate in Marital and Couple Counselling - Theory and Practice, Relate (HGC)

Relate Couple Counselling Training from 1991 to 1994

Throughout my career I have maintained a professional and ethical approach by regularly attending CPD's (Continued Professional Development) trainings and workshops. They are many and varied over twenty plus years of practice but I will list some areas of interest and specific courses below:

Safeguarding Adults and Young People
Attachment Narratives in Families
Ethical dilemmas when working with Young People
Conflict Resolution
Solution Focussed Brief Therapy
Ethical Postures in Therapy
Systemic Ideas and Creative Practice with Young People
Child Focused Practice
Collaborative Relationships between Clients and Therapists, Trainers and Trainees
Understanding Young People's Mental Health
CAF (Common Assessment Framework) Awareness
Domestic Violence & Abuse
Keeping Children Safe from a Multidisciplinary Perspective
Mental Health and Couple Counselling

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Accredited register membership

Other areas of counselling I deal with

What is Sex Therapy?

Very often people struggle with their sexual difficulty in silence feeling embarrassed and ashamed unable to discuss their issues with anyone. Psychosexual Therapy helps both individuals and couples to overcome this.

I offer an initial assessment to talk through the problem and to decide the way forward. At this stage the aim is to give voice to what is happening and for me to inform you of your options. You could be offered a programme of therapy of Sensate Focus exercises which is based on behavioural change, practised in the privacy of your own home. It is designed to remove pressure on sexual performance and concentrates much more in the early stages on rebuilding intimacy. Sometimes I may suggest you visit your GP to examine other organic possibilities before engaging in Therapy.

What Sex Therapy is not

It is not a quick fix. Some problems take longer that others depending on your willingness to engage with the therapy. It is not ‘hands on’. You do the exercises at home alone or with your partner and bring your feed back to your appointment where we collaborate to analyse the information.

Programme of Therapy

It is a method of changing behaviour based in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy [CBT]  but not exclusively, a skilled practitioner may draw on other modalities to increase the effectiveness of any particular area of focus. Whilst there are no guarantees of success the process produces positive change in most cases.

Below are medical definitions which you may or may not find helpful, please be kind to yourself and know that we are all different! These are common reasons for people to seek help but this is not an exhaustive list and one of the most common reasons for seeking help is that a couple's sexual relationship has 'dwindled away' over the lifespan of the relationship.

Sexual Disorder Definitions

Male Erectile Disorder

Persistent or recurrent inability to retain or maintain until completion an adequate erection.

Premature Ejaculation

Persistent or recurrent ejaculation with minimal sexual stimulation before, on, or shortly after penetration and before a person wishes it. The Clinician will take into account the contextual situation ie age, new relationship, and recent frequency of sexual activity.

Male Orgasmic Disorder

Persistent or recurrent delay in, or absence of orgasm following normal sexual stimulation. The Clinician will take into account age, adequate focus and intensity and duration of sexual activity.

Vaginismus Response

Recurrent or persistent involuntary spasm of the musculature of the outer third of the vagina that interferes with sexual intercourse.


Recurrent or persistent genital pain associated with sexual intercourse in either male or female.

Female Orgasmic Disorder

Persistent or recurrent delay in, or absence of orgasm following a normal excitement phase. Women exhibit a wide variation in the type or intensity of stimulation that triggers orgasm.

Female Sexual Arousal Disorder

Persistent or recurrent inability to attain, or maintain until completion of sexual activity an adequate lubrication-swelling response to sexual excitement.

Sexual Aversion Disorder

Persistent or recurrent extreme aversion to, and avoidance of all [or almost all] genital sexual contact with a sexual partne

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  • Counsulting Room
  • Sharon Gallington-Reynolds


£65 For Individual Adults
£75 for Couples

Please telephone if you would like to arrange an initial consultation to see if you might find therapy helpful.

Further information

Relate Registered Practitioner 11600

Member of the BACP (British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy) 681509

Member of COSRT (College of Sexual and Relationship Therapy) 2660

Member of AFT (Association of Family Therapists) 1252083

I have been checked by the Disclosure and Barring Service and hold an Enhanced Certificate.

I am professionally insured to practice.

Maps & Directions

Farnham, GU9
Haslemere, GU27 2AS

Type of session

Online counselling: Yes
Telephone counselling: No
Face to face counselling: Yes

Practical details

Sign language: No
Other languages: None


Wheelchair access: Unspecified


Sessions in Haslemere are offered on Mondays, Tuesdays and Fridays. On Monday and Tuesday there are some early evening appointments.

Types of client


Supervision & training

I am a Relate trained supervisor.

Online supervision:Yes
Telephone supervision:Yes
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