Sharon Reynolds MBACP
I am Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist with over 20 years experience, working with couples, family groups and individuals.
In Haslemere I see private clients who are looking for a change in their lives. This change can be in themselves or in their relationships be they with a partner, family or business settings.
I also work for the national counselling charity, Relate. Where I providing supervise the clinical team of therapists working across a range of disciplines. My practice in the Centre is in psychosexual therapy.
Previously I gained invaluable experience when working in a range of settings, such as West Sussex County Council, CAMHS (Child and Adolescent Mental Health) and Sussex Partnerships NHS.
My training has been in a range of modalities. Psychodynamic, Applied Systemic Theory and most recently CBT(Cognitive Behavioural Therapy).
In these fast paced days I can offer you my time, attention and genuine interest in your situation; working together with you to find different perspectives and a hopeful way forward.
If you would like to discus whether or how therapy might be helpful to you I am happy to have this conversation.
Training, qualifications & experience
PG Dip Psycho-sexual therapy with Birkbeck University/Relate Institute
Certificate in Clinical Supervision, Relate Institute
PG Diploma in Applied Systemic Theory, The Tavistock and Portman NHS
Basic Drug Awareness Level 2, OCN
Certificate of Systemic Practice in Family Therapy, Relate Institute
Counselling Young People, Relate (Herbert Gray College)
Groups Skills (Theory & Practice) for Trainers Level 3, OCN
Certificate in Marital and Couple Counselling - Theory and Practice, Relate (HGC)
Relate Couple Counselling Training from 1991 to 1994
Throughout my career I have maintained a professional and ethical approach by regularly attending CPD's (Continued Professional Development) trainings and workshops. They are many and varied over twenty plus years of practice but I will list some areas of interest and specific courses below:
Safeguarding Adults and Young People
Attachment Narratives in Families
Ethical dilemmas when working with Young People
Solution Focussed Brief Therapy
Ethical Postures in Therapy
Systemic Ideas and Creative Practice with Young People
Child Focused Practice
Collaborative Relationships between Clients and Therapists, Trainers and Trainees
Understanding Young People's Mental Health
CAF (Common Assessment Framework) Awareness
Domestic Violence & Abuse
Keeping Children Safe from a Multidisciplinary Perspective
Mental Health and Couple Counselling
Areas of counselling I deal with
- Affairs and betrayals
- Anger management
- Asperger's syndrome
- Attachment disorder
- Child related issues
- Domestic violence
- Eating disorders
- Emotional abuse
- Family issues
- Gender dysphoria
- Low self-confidence
- Low self-esteem
- Obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD)
- Passive aggressive behaviour
- Personality disorders
- Physical abuse
Other areas of counselling I deal with
What is Sex Therapy?
Very often people struggle with their sexual difficulty in silence feeling embarrassed and ashamed unable to discuss their issues with anyone. Psychosexual Therapy helps both individuals and couples to overcome this.
I offer an initial assessment to talk through the problem and to decide the way forward. At this stage the aim is to give voice to what is happening and for me to inform you of your options. You could be offered a programme of therapy of Sensate Focus exercises which is based on behavioural change, practised in the privacy of your own home. It is designed to remove pressure on sexual performance and concentrates much more in the early stages on rebuilding intimacy. Sometimes I may suggest you visit your GP to examine other organic possibilities before engaging in Therapy.
What Sex Therapy is not
It is not a quick fix. Some problems take longer that others depending on your willingness to engage with the therapy. It is not ‘hands on’. You do the exercises at home alone or with your partner and bring your feed back to your appointment where we collaborate to analyse the information.
Programme of Therapy
It is a method of changing behaviour based in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy [CBT] but not exclusively, a skilled practitioner may draw on other modalities to increase the effectiveness of any particular area of focus. Whilst there are no guarantees of success the process produces positive change in most cases.
Below are medical definitions which you may or may not find helpful, please be kind to yourself and know that we are all different! These are common reasons for people to seek help but this is not an exhaustive list and one of the most common reasons for seeking help is that a couple's sexual relationship has 'dwindled away' over the lifespan of the relationship.
Sexual Disorder Definitions
Male Erectile Disorder
Persistent or recurrent inability to retain or maintain until completion an adequate erection.
Persistent or recurrent ejaculation with minimal sexual stimulation before, on, or shortly after penetration and before a person wishes it. The Clinician will take into account the contextual situation ie age, new relationship, and recent frequency of sexual activity.
Male Orgasmic Disorder
Persistent or recurrent delay in, or absence of orgasm following normal sexual stimulation. The Clinician will take into account age, adequate focus and intensity and duration of sexual activity.
Recurrent or persistent involuntary spasm of the musculature of the outer third of the vagina that interferes with sexual intercourse.
Recurrent or persistent genital pain associated with sexual intercourse in either male or female.
Female Orgasmic Disorder
Persistent or recurrent delay in, or absence of orgasm following a normal excitement phase. Women exhibit a wide variation in the type or intensity of stimulation that triggers orgasm.
Female Sexual Arousal Disorder
Persistent or recurrent inability to attain, or maintain until completion of sexual activity an adequate lubrication-swelling response to sexual excitement.
Sexual Aversion Disorder
Persistent or recurrent extreme aversion to, and avoidance of all [or almost all] genital sexual contact with a sexual partne
- Cognitive and behavioural therapies
- Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT)
- Couples counselling
- Family/systemic therapy
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£65 For Individual Adults
£75 for Couples
£95 for Family Groups
Please telephone if you would like to arrange an initial consultation to see if you might find therapy helpful.
Relate Registered Practitioner 11600
Member of the BACP (British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy) 681509
Member of COSRT (College of Sexual and Relationship Therapy) 2660
Member of AFT (Association of Family Therapists) 1252083
I have been checked by the Disclosure and Barring Service and hold an Enhanced Certificate.
I am professionally insured to practice.
Maps & Directions
Type of session
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Sessions in Haslemere are offered on Mondays, Tuesdays and Fridays. On Monday and Tuesday there are some early evening appointments.
Types of client
Supervision & training
I am a Relate trained Supervisor and currently supervise 20 counsellors who provide counselling to individuals, couples, young people and families. These counsellors are trained both Systemically and Psychodynamically.View supervision profile