Patricia Higgs. Relationship Counsellor and Psychosexual Therapist

About me

I am a Relationship Counsellor and Psychosexual Therapist for couples and individuals. I want to help you get the best out of your relationships, whether you are heterosexual, gay, married, living together or single.

I am registered with: BACP (British Association for Counselling and Psychothearty),
                                COSRT (College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists).


Are you experiencing:

• Constant arguments
• Feeling you are not being listened to or are not important to your partner
• Lack of connection or communication difficulties
• A feeling you are drifting apart, and are at a different stage in life to your partner
• You are bored with your relationship
• Betrayals of trust, such as affairs or debt
• Abusive or controlling behaviour
• Sexual issues such as erectile difficulties, pain, loss of desire, confusion about your sexuality or internet pornography addiction
• Infertility, miscarriage, loss of a child, or difficulties with children or adolescents
• Family issues such as step-parenting or problems with In-Laws
• Major life events such as serious illness, redundancy or bereavement
• Depression and anxiety
• Loss of a partner through separation, divorce or death
• Thinking about separation or divorce

How do we work together:  


Every couple is unique and I tailor the therapy to suit you. I offer short-term and long-term therapy. for more information please visit my website:- Trishahiggscounselling.org.

If you phone or email me I will be happy to talk to you at any time.
I can offer a calm and non-judgemental environment for you to think together or alone.

I trained at the renowned Tavistock Centre for Couple Relationships in London, where I currently work. I also have my own practice in Hildenborough, Kent. I can be easily reached from Sevenoaks, Tonbridge, Tunbridge Wells, Surrey, Sussex and South East London.

I work with a wide range of relationship and sexual problems. I am also trained in Sensate Focus therapy, which empowers couples to reconnect sexually, in a sensitive and gradual way. My background in District Nursing enables me to connect with people in an understanding and approachable way, enabling clients to explore intimate problems.