Jason Gillery MBACP/ MCOSRT~ Sex & Relationship Therapist / Supervisor
Welcome to Yorkshire Counselling Services. ~ Appointments currently available.
I am a fully qualified Relate trained therapist with over 9 years experience, specialising in couples counselling and helping individuals overcome family issues, Sexual Issues and Relationship Issues.
I appreciate that it can feel difficult in asking for help and to put trust in someone you have never met, especially with often upsetting and difficult issues. I can help you to work through difficulties such as anxiety, trauma, sexuality issues, sex problems, sexual abuse, affairs and betrayals, separation and divorce, communication, family issues, relationship issues or child related issues.
Seeking counselling support for the first time can feel daunting for a lot of people, I know what it can feel like to be in that position, having sought help myself. With this in mind, I offer you a safe, confidential, trusting, neutral and non judgemental space. I aim to make that process as easy and reassuring as I can and am happy to discuss any fears / concerns you may have.
Often the hardest part is making that first contact, and attending the initial appointment can feel a difficult first step. I will help to put you at ease and make that as comfortable as I can.
It often can feel like we may have somehow failed or its a last resort in trying to resolve difficulties. I have helped many people like yourself, who also felt unsure initially on what to expect and feelings of trepidation or embarrassment in asking for help.
In my experience and feedback received by clients, once they have made that initial step they often find at the end of the first appointment any fears, embarrassments and concerns they may have had have been alleviated.
I believe that the therapeutic relationship between counsellor and client is all important and offer an empathic, trusting, neutral, warm, understanding, non-judgmental space.
By working in an integrative way (meaning that I work with a range of different theories), I am able to work in the best way that helps you the client. In my experience what works for one person doesn't for another, after all we are all different.
Whether you are a couple or as an individual facing issues around sex and intimacy, relationship difficulties with communication, arguing, managing a beak up, separation, family issues or suffering from anxiety, depression, low self esteem. I can help you to get things back to how you would like them to be.
Sexual issues are something most of us will experience at some point in our lives and can be a result of many differing factors. I understand that it can be particularly difficult to talk about and feel embarrassing. I understand the impacts this can have on a relationship.
Psychosexual Therapy (PST) can help you overcome issues such as low or loss of Sexual Desire, Vaginismus, Dyspareunia, Premature Ejaculation, Delayed Ejaculation, Erectile Dysfunction and Performance Anxiety. In addition, it can help improve your communication around sex and intimacy. Whilst enhancing your sex life to be part of your healthy relationship.
I understand that there can be concerns about what coming to PST will involve, to reassure you, you would never be asked to do anything in the counselling room other than talk, the treatment plans are all individually tailored for the needs of the individual / couple using a range of theories including Cognitive Behavioural Therapy to achieve the goals set out by you the client.
In addition through my work with Survive North Yorkshire, I have 7 years experience of working with trauma, anxiety, depression, PTSD, counselling adult survivors of child sexual abuse, rape and sexual assault.
I offer a professional, discreet, confidential, friendly and relaxed Therapy and Counselling service in York, in a comfortable environment, operating from a central location in York with easy access and on street parking. My services cover Psychosexual (Sex) Therapy, Couple / Relationship Counselling, Trauma Counselling and Young people Counselling.
Please email, phone or visit the website for further details and an informal chat.
I am able to offer counselling in my practice by phone, webcam or face to face.
If you are a Supervisee looking for a Supervisor then please check out my Supervisor profile and be happy to arrange an informal chat.
Training, qualifications & experience
Training qualifications and experience:
Currently training in EMDR to work with trauma
CPCAB Level 6 Supervisor Certificate
MCOSRT - (General Member of the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists)
MBACP - young people, individual and couple counselling in private practice
Post graduate certificate in Psychosexual Therapy
Relate University Advanced Diploma in Couple Counselling
Young Person’s Counselling through Youth Access
Level 3 Certificate in Counselling Skills
Safeguarding Children Level 1 certificate delivered by Hull Safeguarding Children Board
Enhanced DBS Check to work with young people (The DBS replaced the CRB check)
Variety of Continuing Professional Development training ranging from Anxiety and Mental Health to Sexual issues and everything in between!
(All qualifications can be viewed upon request)
Areas of counselling I deal with
- Affairs and betrayals
- Attachment disorder
- Behaviour problems
- Child related issues
- Childhood bullying
- Depression and anxiety in children
- Domestic violence
- Emotional abuse
- Family issues
- Feeling sad
- Gender dysphoria
- Generalised anxiety disorder
- Low self-confidence
- Low self-esteem
- Physical abuse
- Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)
- Relationship problems
- Separation and divorce
- Separation anxiety
- Sex problems
- Sexual abuse
- Suicidal thoughts
- Work-related stress
Other areas of counselling I deal with
I work with Young people from the age of 10 upwards some of the common issues that I work with are :
- Family issues
- Friendship issues
- Confidence issues
- Low self esteem
- Parent Separation
- Self harm
I also offer a secure and confidential online service, a young person may feel more comfortable talking through this format than face to face counselling as that can feel very daunting for a young person, this can be delivered by video sessions, voice only sessions, instant messaging or email. Further details on these services can be found on the website.
Please visit the website for more information on Young People Counselling or call to have a chat on how I can help.
- Cognitive and behavioural therapies
- Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT)
- Couples counselling
- Family/systemic therapy
Young people under 18 and students £35
Supervision £40 an hour
Payment made on the day of the session, either by cash or card payments (I can accept most major debit and credit cards).
Since becoming a qualified therapist, I have helped clients, both young and old, with a number of problems such as low sexual desire, erectile dysfunction, vaginismus, Dyspareunia (pain experienced through penetrative sex), premature ejaculation, depression, relationship issues, addictions, stress, anxiety, trauma, low self-esteem, bullying, parents separating, anti social behaviour and anger in young people, as well as issues surrounding sexuality, sexual and domestic abuse.
No disabled access
Maps & Directions
Type of session
|Face to face counselling:||Yes|
Appointments currently available. Daytime, evening and weekend appointments.
Types of client
Supervision & training
I completed the CPCAB Supervision Level 6 training in May 2017 and have been supervising 6 Supervisees as well as running 2 group supervisions per month at Relate National, since August 2016.