Emily Telami

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BSc, MSc, BACP Accred

About me

I am a psychotherapist/counsellor and supervisor with specialist expertise in intercultural psychotherapy and a particular interest in developmental and early relational trauma. My experience spans working with a diverse range of clients, including as a psychotherapist within the NHS (SW London NHS Foundation Trust) and as a counsellor supporting war veterans in a country affected by conflict.

I believe that lasting internal change is possible, no matter how stuck or hopeless things may feel—especially when you are ready for it. But readiness alone isn’t always enough. We often need structure, support, understanding, and a compassionate presence to walk alongside us. I aim to provide these essentials: a supportive space, an empathic witness, and someone you can think with as you navigate your journey.

How I Work

Allowing ourselves time to pause, reflect, and remember—in the presence of an empathetic other—can help us reconnect with our inner worlds, and clarify what we truly need from life and relationships in the present moment.

Some of the topics I work with include:

  • Addiction and eating disorders
  • Anxiety, panic, and feelings of emptiness
  • Attachment and intimacy difficulties
  • Childhood betrayal, neglect, and abuse
  • Depression and dissociation
  • Sexuality and navigating sexual identity
  • Loneliness, isolation, belonging, and experiences of otherness
  • Loss, abandonment, and bereavement
  • Parental narcissism and family dysfunction
  • Racialised injury and internalised racism
  • Toxic shame, shamelessness, and transferred guilt
  • Trauma (including complex, developmental, intergenerational, and racialised trauma)

Sessions are available online, with limited availability for in-person appointments at my consulting room in Surbiton, Surrey.

What next?
The first step is to arrange an initial appointment to see if counselling could work for you. We will use the first session to see whether we can work together. 

At our first session, we will discuss the main reasons that brought you to therapy, explore the way to work together that may best suit you.

Training, qualifications & experience

I am a BACP-accredited psychotherapist/counsellor and supervisor. My training is in integrative psychotherapy, which means I draw on both person-centred therapy (focusing on empathy and personal growth) and psychodynamic therapy (exploring how past experiences influence present feelings and behaviours).

Before establishing my psychotherapy practice, I spent 20 years working in the technology sector—most recently with emerging technologies—and developed a keen interest in how these advances can contribute to mental health research and development.

My therapeutic approach is also shaped by my passion for the arts, philosophy, literature, and an awareness of wider social, economic, and political movements.

Member organisations

Registered / Accredited

Registered / Accredited

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BACP
British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy (BACP)

BACP is one of the UK’s leading professional bodies for counselling and psychotherapy with around 60,000 members. The Association has several different categories of membership, including Student Member, Individual Member, Registered Member MBACP, Registered Accredited Member MBACP (Accred) and Senior Registered Accredited Member MBACP (Snr Acccred). Registered and accredited members are listed on the BACP Register, which shows that they have demonstrated BACP’s recommended standards for training, proficiency and ethical practice. The BACP Register was the first register of psychological therapists to be accredited by the Professional Standards Authority (PSA). Accredited and senior accredited membership are voluntary categories for members who choose to undertake a rigorous application and assessment process to demonstrate additional standards around practice, training and supervision. Individual members will have completed an appropriate counselling or psychotherapy course and started to practise, but they won’t appear on the BACP Register until they've demonstrated that they meet the standards for registration. Student members are still in the process of completing their training. All members are bound by the BACP Ethical Framework and a Professional Conduct Procedure.

Accredited register membership

British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy
Accredited Register Scheme

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British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy

Areas of counselling I deal with

Fees

£65.00 per session

Concessions offered for

  • Students
  • Trainee counsellors
  • Refugees

Additional information

My fee is £65 for individuals and £80 for couples. I review my fees in January each year.

When I work

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Early morning
Morning
Early afternoon
Late afternoon
Evening

Type of session

In person
Online

Types of client

Young adults (18-24)
Adults (25-64)
Older Adults (65+)
Couples

Key details

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There are steps to access the counselling room. Online counselling available

Additional languages

Persian/Farsi

Armenian, Farsi

Online platforms

Google Meet
Microsoft Teams
Zoom