About me
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Counselling for anxiety, life stress and relationship strain in Sevenoaks
Opening summary
Anxious, overwhelmed, or struggling in your relationship? I offer calm, professional counselling in Sevenoaks for adults and couples.
Profile
Many of the adults I work with appear to be coping well from the outside, yet privately feel anxious, emotionally overwhelmed, stuck, or exhausted by the pressure they are carrying. Others come because their relationship is under strain and they need thoughtful, professional support to make sense of what is happening.
I offer counselling for adults and couples in Sevenoaks who are dealing with anxiety, life stress, emotional overwhelm, burnout, and relationship difficulties. Therapy can help you understand what is happening beneath the surface, regulate difficult emotions, and find a steadier, clearer way forward.
My approach is calm, professional and grounded in real life. I provide a confidential space where you can think clearly, speak openly, and begin to understand the patterns, pressures and relationship dynamics that may be keeping you stuck.
You may be struggling with anxiety, chronic worry, emotional overwhelm, low self-worth, burnout, family pressures, or a persistent sense that life feels harder than it should. You may be overthinking, feeling emotionally drained, or finding it difficult to switch off. You may also be dealing with relationship stress, repeated conflict, emotional distance, betrayal, separation, or uncertainty about what happens next.
Some clients come because they are used to holding everything together and no longer feel able to do so without cost. Others are struggling with the emotional impact of difficult relationships, repeated patterns, or unresolved hurt. Some feel lost in their own lives and want help understanding why they feel as they do and what needs to change.
Therapy with me is not about quick fixes or vague reassurance. It is about taking your experience seriously, understanding the emotional and relational patterns that may be shaping it, and helping you move forward with greater clarity, steadiness and self-awareness.
Where appropriate, I look not only at what is happening in the present, but also at the deeper patterns that may sit underneath anxiety, overwhelm, or relationship strain. This may include attachment-related dynamics, family experiences, long-standing coping styles, and the pressure of always appearing to cope.
Clients often value having a space that feels calm, serious, containing and free from judgement. Whether you are feeling emotionally stretched, stuck in cycles of overthinking, or struggling in an important relationship, counselling can offer the time and space to understand what is happening and what you need.
I can help with:
Anxiety and chronic worry
Stress and emotional overwhelm
Burnout and exhaustion
Relationship strain and conflict
Communication difficulties
Betrayal, separation and uncertainty
Low self-worth and self-doubt
Family pressures and life transitions
Attachment-related patterns
Feeling stuck, lost or emotionally drained
If you are looking for thoughtful, professional support with anxiety, life stress, emotional overwhelm or relationship difficulties, you are welcome to get in touch. I offer counselling for adults and couples in Sevenoaks and the surrounding area.
Qualifications
SRN, Royal London Hospital (1982)
Advanced Diploma in Humanistic Counselling (BACP-accredited training, 2012 – West Kent)
Diploma in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (2015 – Kent College)
Diploma in Hypnotherapy (2015 – Kent College)
Mediation Foundation Training in Dispute Resolution (2018 – LBA)
Divorce Therapy and Mentoring (2020 – BSY)
Certificate in Online and Telephone Counselling (2021 – Counselling Tutor)
Complex Trauma, Dissociation and Flashbacks (CPD, 2022 – Dr Heather Sequeira)
Divorce Coaching (2023 – DCA)
Practical Details
Location: Sevenoaks, Kent TN14
Setting: quiet, private room with passkey-controlled access and ample on-site parking
Accessibility: please note there is no disabled access
Sessions: in-person and online
Fees 75 per session 100 couples 120 Divorce support.
Training, qualifications & experience
SRN- Royal London Hospital. 1982
Advance Diploma Humanistic Counselling, BACP Accredited 2012 ( West Kent).
Diploma Cognitive Behavioural Therapy 2015 ( Kent College).
Diploma in Hypnotherapy 2015 ( Kent College).
Mediation Foundation Training in Dispute Resolution 2018 ( LBA ).
Divorce Therapy and Mentoring 2020 ( BSY).
Certificate in Online and Telephone Counselling 2021 ( Counselling Tutor).
Complex Trauma, Dissociation and Flashbacks 2022 ( Dr Heather Sequeira).
Divorce Coaching 2023 ( DCA).
Member organisations
school Registered / Accredited
Being registered/accredited with a professional body means an individual must have achieved a substantial level of training and experience approved by their member organisation.
UKAHPP is a national accrediting organisation for all those who apply the theories of Humanistic Psychology in their work. The UKAHPP is an independent member organisation of the United Kingdom Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP) and the UK Register of Counsellors. The Association is made up of a number of different membership classes e.g. Associate Members, Affiliate Members, Full Members, each with different requirements for entry. Full Members may use the initials 'MAHPP' after their names, and have undergone a rigorous accreditation procedure relevant to their discipline. All members of the Association of Humanistic Psychology Practitioners must commit to acceptance of the UKAHPP Code of Ethical Principles, the UKAHPP Code of Practice, the UKAHPP Ethical Review Procedure and the UKAHPP Complaints Procedure.
Areas of counselling I deal with
Therapies offered
Fees
£75.00 per session
Additional information
Single sessions 75
Couples 100
Divorce Coaching 120
Further information
I work from a quiet, private room in Ide Hill, offering a discreet and professional setting for focused therapeutic work. The building has passkey-controlled access and ample on-site parking. Please note that there is no disabled access. Sessions begin promptly and are conducted within clear professional boundaries. My way of working is structured, evidence-based and grounded in attachment theory, suited to adults who value a clear, thoughtful and businesslike approach to psychological support.