How often do we feel frustrated that we want our partner to know what we want in bed but can’t find the words? We then decide to ‘leave it this time’…

Some years ago I attended a party where the attendees were all sexworkers. The main topic of conversation was what happens ‘when the real session sta…

The answer, as with anything to do with relationships, isn’t as straightforward as it may seem. A lot of a therapist’s time can be spent helping coup…

Ejaculatory speed is the main cause of sexological consultation in men of our culture, but did you know that fast ejaculation is a natural biological…

It’s easy to believe that we have, as a society, become quite relaxed about sex. Sex is now an everyday thing in TV dramas, advertising, magazine art…

I think desire is a moving and changing force of energy that is in all areas of life, including sexual desire. The desire is not for sex alone but al…

When you sit down with a therapist, you are carrying all your past sexual experiences, both positive and negative, and you will very likely be carryi…

Long-term relationships should offer each partner two things. The relationship should feel like the best place for individual growth. And it should b…

Every so often it's good to take stock of our primary relationship. Perhaps the most frequent question is, ‘do we still have that spark anymore?’ Mo…

This is a common situation in long-term relationships. Whichever side of the equation you are on, it can cause unhappiness - one partner feeling they…

It is common in long-term relationships for sex to become infrequent, unsatisfying or stop completely - more common than most people realise. Trying…

“If sexuality is one dimension of our ability to live passionately in the world then in cutting off our sexual feelings we diminish our overall power…