One of the most persistent problems witnessed within families who visit my consulting rooms is with the unhelpful consequences of giving unsolicited…

Whilst many people look forward to the Christmas season as it can be fun and exciting, it can also bring stress. Arguments can arise quite easily, es…

Relationship issues include a wide range of topics. In this article I will focus on people who have had a number of unhappy relationships which promp…

Intimacy in relationships Sometimes we feel our relationships have lost their intimacy. That moment when we no longer have the sense of closeness we…

Most people who have experienced abuse, neglect, abandonment and rejection often attract spouses in relationships who can reinforce the emotions that…

Do you stay in relationships with a chronic fear that your partner will leave you, or engage in patterns of constant re-abandonment with unsuitable p…

When trouble hits relationships, it tends to be common for most partners to point the finger the other way and attach blame for difficulties to their…

Getting intimate with a person, either a partner, a friend or even our therapist, is not always a smooth and easy process for everyone.  In this ins…

When we experience a conflict in the relationship with our partner, we usually feel negative emotions such as frustration, anger, fear, sadness and r…

If you feel confused, resentful, anxious and powerless then read on… If you feel your intimate relationships, or members in your family are on the r…

When do I stop being “me” and become “we” when I'm with you? Who am I when I'm with you? Who am I when I'm not with you? Do I have any choice about t…

I’ve noticed when working with others, especially couples, that quite often when a relationship goes wrong it’s usually the communication where the p…