Psychodynamic therapy, transactional analysis, Gestalt, integrative therapy, person-centred therapy, humanistic therapy, core process, existential th…

Many people, upon reaching adulthood, spend the rest of their lives trying to get what their parent(s) never gave them. This can be for many reasons…

‘So we have decided that we are going to separate, now we need to tell the children but are not sure what to tell them and how we go about it.’ Ofte…

In the first instance, we may consider proximity in terms of the mere factors of how often we meet, where, when and how. When we are in frequent cont…

So how do we define here what love really is? "Idealization is the mental process by means of which the objects qualities and values are elevated to…

Who am I and why does it matter? Can I be me or must I be like you? Will you love me for who I am? These are some of the questions we struggle with…

When your relationship is in crisis, it very important to be able to slow right down in what is often a very fast process. To be willing and able to…

Divorce is a known major life-changing event which is often associated with psychological problems such as depression and anxiety, with unhelpful cop…

Infidelity, many would suggest it heralds the end of the relationship yet it need not necessarily be so. Infidelity is a huge emotional crisis and un…

A good couples counsellor would work with the relationship and the couple within it. When do we begin to learn about relationships? Although not con…

Anger is one of the most difficult - and often frightening - emotions to manage in a relationship. At one end of the anger spectrum, couples may be o…

What I neverlearnedfrom my motherwas thatjust becausesomeone desires youdoesnot mean they value you.desire is the kind of thing thateats youandleaves…