Anyone who has been in a relationship, romantic or otherwise will know that it is not a static entity. Relationships ebb and flow, sometimes you will…

It’s a generalisation, yes, but men tend to find it more difficult to express their emotions than women do. Is this a bad thing? Not necessarily. Th…

Many people are of the opinion that ‘people can’t change!’ This statement seems really strange to me, as counselling and therapy are very often about…

It doesn’t take a lot to begin questioning ourselves, our abilities and our place in society. A remark from a parent, the feeling of being different…

Depression defined in a dictionary is a mood disorder, that gives the sufferer persistent feelings of hopelessness, dejection, a lack of energy and a…

Struggling with loss? Acknowledge your feelings, seek support, and have faith. These tips will guide you through healing and new beginnings.

Sorry to mislead you, but the honest truth is - you can’t. You cannot ‘deal’ with anyone other than yourself. The more you try and deal with them th…

We all have a sense of value about ourselves, a personal value. This reflects our overall sense of ourselves and is often referred to as our self-est…

Improving Individual Resilience Life is stressful. It is impossible to eliminate pressure, but stress occurs when the demands upon us outstrip our c…

Aim to be unhappy Freud’s aim with treatment was “to change misery into common unhappiness”. The suggestion is that it is normal to feel some unhappi…

I use the words 'therapy' and 'counselling' in this article as if they are roughly the same thing. The shorthand explanation for what can be differen…

Research methodology and how research findings can inform counselling practice For any profession to survive and develop, on-going research is neces…