Unsure about therapy? Explore common concerns and benefits

If you’re feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or lost and are contemplating the idea of therapy, you’re not alone. Many individuals struggle with the decision to seek support, and it’s perfectly normal to have reservations.

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Let’s explore some common reasons people hesitate to reach out, as well as the benefits of taking that important step toward better mental health.


The weight of stigma

The stigma surrounding mental health can create significant barriers. You might worry about how others will perceive you if you admit to needing help. However, it's essential to remember that seeking support is a brave and positive decision. Mental health challenges affect many people, and reaching out for help is a sign of strength, not weakness.

Fear of judgment

It’s natural to fear judgment from others when discussing personal struggles. You may worry about sharing your feelings or experiences with a therapist. Remember that mental health professionals create safe, nonjudgmental spaces where you can express yourself freely. They are trained to listen and provide support without criticism.

Feeling overwhelmed

Life can be hectic, and the thought of starting therapy may feel daunting. From finding the right therapist to making that first appointment, it can seem like just another task on your to-do list. However, taking that first step is often the most significant part of the journey. Mental health professionals are here to support you every step of the way.

A fear of change

Considering therapy often involves confronting difficult emotions, which can be intimidating. It’s entirely normal to feel apprehensive about change. However, embracing the therapeutic process can lead to profound personal growth and healing. Many clients discover that the benefits of change far outweigh their initial fears.

Discounting your feelings

You might find yourself thinking that your struggles aren’t significant enough to warrant therapy or that you should just "tough it out." It's important to understand that everyone’s experiences are valid. No struggle is too small to seek help. Recognising your feelings and allowing yourself to explore them can lead to a deeper understanding of yourself and a clearer path forward.


Reasons to take the leap and seek therapy

While there are valid reasons that might hold you back, there are also many compelling reasons to reach out for support:

Validation of your feelings: Therapy offers a space where you can express your thoughts and emotions and feel genuinely understood. It’s a place where your experiences are validated.

Coping strategies: Working with a therapist equips you with tools and techniques to better manage stress, anxiety, and other challenges, helping you navigate life's difficulties with greater ease.

Personal insights: Therapy provides an opportunity for self-exploration. Gaining insights about yourself can enhance your understanding and lead to meaningful changes in your life.

Supportive environment: Therapy is a confidential space where you can explore your thoughts and emotions safely, free from judgment, allowing for open and honest dialogue.

Improved relationships: Addressing personal challenges can help improve not just your relationship with yourself but also the connections you have with others.


Final thoughts 

If you’re contemplating therapy, know that it’s a positive decision and a significant step toward improving your well-being. Understanding the barriers to reaching out can help you feel less isolated in your experience and encourage you to take that leap. If you’re ready to embark on this journey, reach out and connect with a counsellor or therapist.

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Written by Dr Holly Shahverdi-Cartlidge, BSc MSc DCounsPsy CPsychol
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Dr. Holly Shahverdi-Cartlidge is a HCPC Registered Counselling Psychologist who supports individuals on their journeys to healing and self-discovery. Using a blend of evidence-based therapies, she creates a safe and nurturing environment for clients to explore their thoughts and emotions.

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