Trauma of maternity care in the UK: A therapist's perspective

The recent governmental review into maternity services in the UK has shone a glaring light on a distressing reality: many women and families are left with unresolved trauma after childbirth.


As a therapist, I have seen firsthand the deep emotional scars that result from traumatic birth experiences. This trauma often goes unrecognised and untreated, compounding the suffering of women who already feel marginalised within the healthcare system.

The impact of traumatic birth

Childbirth is a life-changing event, and while it can be a joyful experience, it can also be fraught with complications that lead to trauma. These traumatic experiences can stem from emergency interventions, lack of communication and support from medical staff, feelings of helplessness and even the perceived or actual threat to the life of the mother or child. The psychological fallout from such experiences can include post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), anxiety, depression and difficulties in bonding with the newborn.

Despite the prevalence of these issues, mental health support for new mothers is often insufficient. The focus tends to be on the physical recovery of the mother and the health of the baby, while the emotional and psychological needs of the mother are overlooked. This neglect can leave lasting scars, affecting not only the mother’s mental health but also the well-being of the entire family.

Addressing the gaps in maternity care

To improve women's mental health after a traumatic birth, several steps need to be taken. Firstly, there needs to be a systemic change in how maternity care is delivered. This includes better training for healthcare professionals on the psychological impacts of childbirth and the importance of compassionate communication. Healthcare providers should be trained to recognise the signs of trauma and offer immediate support and referrals to mental health services.

Secondly, there should be a comprehensive postnatal mental health screening process. This should be a routine part of postnatal care, ensuring that any signs of distress are identified early and addressed promptly. Providing access to specialised perinatal mental health services can make a significant difference in the recovery and overall well-being of new mothers.

The broader issue of women's health marginalisation

The marginalisation of women within the health system is not limited to maternity care. From puberty to menopause, women’s health issues are often inadequately addressed. Menstrual health, for instance, is frequently neglected. Women with heavy or painful periods are often prescribed the contraceptive pill without a thorough investigation into underlying causes such as endometriosis or polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS). This quick-fix approach fails to address the root problems and can lead to years of untreated pain and discomfort.

Similarly, the menopause is another area where women are underserved. The physical and emotional symptoms of menopause can be debilitating, yet many women struggle to receive adequate support and treatment. The stigma and lack of awareness surrounding menopause further exacerbate the issue, leaving many women to suffer in silence.

Integrating medical and mental health support

Improving women's health care requires an integrated approach that combines medical and mental health support. For menstrual health, this means comprehensive assessments and personalised treatment plans rather than blanket prescriptions of contraceptives. Women should have access to specialists who can diagnose and treat underlying conditions and provide holistic care that addresses both physical and emotional well-being.

In the context of childbirth and menopause, a similar integration is necessary. Mental health support should be a routine part of care, with accessible counselling services and support groups. Healthcare providers need to create an environment where women feel heard and their concerns are taken seriously. This involves breaking down the stigma around mental health and encouraging open discussions about the challenges women face at different stages of their lives.

We often dismiss childbirth, puberty, heavy periods and menopause as "natural" processes, but this label does not negate the reality that they can be painful, devastating, heartbreaking, and life-changing. Acknowledging the profound impact these experiences can have on women's lives is the first step towards providing the necessary support and understanding they deserve.

The recent governmental review into maternity services in the UK is a crucial step towards recognising and addressing the trauma experienced by many women during childbirth. However, to truly support women's mental health, we must also address the broader issues of marginalisation within the healthcare system. 

By integrating medical and mental health support, we can create a more compassionate and effective healthcare environment for women, ensuring they receive the comprehensive care they deserve from puberty through menopause. As a therapist, I advocate for these changes, recognising that by supporting women’s mental health, we are ultimately creating healthier families and communities.

The views expressed in this article are those of the author. All articles published on Counselling Directory are reviewed by our editorial team.

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Donna Morgan is a highly experienced Humanistic Mental Health Therapist with 26 years of practice. Her passion for helping individuals with their mental health has driven her to develop a compassionate and holistic approach to therapy. Donna firmly believes in treating each client as a unique individual and providing them with personalised support.

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