Wendie Ralphs - Counsellor, EMDR Practitioner & Life Coach

Wendie Ralphs - Counsellor, EMDR Practitioner & Life Coach


07908 228353

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07908 228353

About me

Are you struggling with Grief and Heartache?  You’ve lost someone.  A child, a parent, a partner, a loved one, job, pet, trust.  Or perhaps you’ve experienced a stressful, traumatic event.  Or a relationship breakdown, it looks irretrievable and you don’t know how you’ll cope.  Or you have another issue you wish to resolve.

Then you’ve been guided to the right place.  Welcome to Butterfly Counselling.  My name is Wendie Ralphs, I’m a Counsellor and Life-Coach based in Thurmaston, Leicester and the reason I’ve helped so many in the journey from heartache to happiness is that I’ve walked that road too.  I've lost my only child when she was age 24, I've experienced several traumas, relationship breakups and plenty of stress.  Throughout all of this, I've found a way to mend a broken heart, to transform stress, trauma and sadness into finding a way to enjoy life again to live with purpose, happiness and calmness and into yours too.

I’ve been doing this successfully for sixteen years now.  You can work with me one-to-one in Thurmaston, LE4, online through video conferencing and I also offer telephone counselling.  Together we can break down what holds you back from the new potential within you.

How We’ll Work Together

These are some of the tools we’ll use:

  • Counselling
  • EMDR
  • Meditation
  • Energy Healing
  • Vision Boards
  • Life Coaching

Together, we’ll find those parts of you that hold painful experiences.  That block you from positive memories, inner peace, happiness and a new zest for life.  Together we’ll remove those blocks, one by one.  Together we’ll find the way forward to a new, energised, positive you – the real you.

**Between sessions, you can receive further benefits through my healing meditations, which you can listen to at home.  These meditations are designed to help improve your wellbeing even further. And because these are yours to keep, you continue to get further benefits long after the work between us has finished.

Grief & Heart-ache can feel like the end but let me help you to see that, in fact, it can be the springboard to a new beginning.


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Training, qualifications & experience

BACP Accredited Counsellor
EMDR Accredited Practitioner
Energy Healer & Life Coach


Theta Healing & Sacred Activations (energy healing)

EMDR Parts One, Two, Three and Four
BA (Hons) in Counselling
HE Diploma in Counselling
HE Certificate in Drug and Alcohol Counselling
Advanced Certificate in Counselling
Certificate in Counselling Studies

Over 16+ years experience

Member organisations

Registered / Accredited


Accredited register membership



£50.00 per session.

You choose whether you wish to work with me i;e weekly, fortnightly or monthly.

**You'll also be given the option to receive some healing meditations to listen to between your sessions.  These are designed to assist your recovery further, and gives you more healing and more value for your buck!

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Further information


I also run Vision Board Workshops focused on health and new beginnings.  This is a fantastically therapeutic workshop where we use creative tools to attract the energy of who we want to BE and create the life you desire.

Groups are limited to 4 so that you get personal attention.

Please contact me for more details or visit my website: http://www.butterflycounselling.com/vision-board-workshops/

Maps & Directions

Leicester, LE4

Type of session

Online counselling: Yes
Telephone counselling: Yes
Face to face counselling: Yes

Practical details

Sign language: No
Other languages: None


Wheelchair access: No


You can see me in-person in Thurmaston LE4, just 4 miles from Leic. (Free Parking) Or choose to work with me via the telephone or online. Daytime and evening appointments available.

Types of client

Older adults
Employee Assistance Programme