Victoria Relph
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About me
Welcome. My name is Victoria, and I am an Integrative Counsellor and EMDR Therapist based in central Canterbury. I work with Adults & Young people. I specialise in Anxiety, Depression, Trauma, PTSD, and Family / Relationship issues.
It isn't easy to find the right person to work with - it's a daunting process I know, but if you are currently feeling overwhelmed, if you are having issues in your relationships or perhaps just wondering how on earth it got to this, then I may be able to help. Counselling offers a safe place to explore your personal thoughts and feelings in a confidential and supportive environment. We all respond well when given the time to stop, be listened to, and be heard.
I enjoy working with both male and female clients and am experienced in working with Neurodiversity and those individuals diagnosed with Personality and Mood disorders.
So let's look at this together;
With over a decade of professional experience, I now run a small private practice in East Kent in addition to working within the NHS and the charity sector. As an integrative therapist, I draw from a number of approaches including Humanistic, Solution Focused, Trauma focused, Mindfulness and more. This enables me to tailor my approach to you as an individual so we can work together and help you move forward with your life.
I am also a trained EMDR Therapist.
EMDR stands for Eye Movement Desensitisation & Reprocessing Therapy (EMDR).
EMDR Therapy is a structured psychotherapy which concentrates on helping individuals recover from past distressing experiences, memories and the problems they have caused like depression or anxiety, upsetting images, thoughts or flashbacks.
EMDR is not simply a therapeutic technique; EMDR is an evidence-based integrative psychotherapy, recognised by the World Health Organisation (WHO), and by the National Institute for Health and Care Excellence (NICE) for its affective use in the treatment of symptoms of mental health disorders and in particular PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder).
There is no issue too big or too small.
I have a wealth of experience in working with:
- Anxiety
- Depression
- Stress
- Anger
- Work stress
- Trauma
- PTSD
- Domestic abuse
- Sadness
- Rape
- Sexual abuse
- Childhood abuse
- Mental health
- Mood disorders
- Personality disorders
- Neurodiversity
- Long term health issues & chronic pain.
- Grief
- Relationship issues
- Affairs & Betrayal
- Divorce
- Family issues
... and life in general.
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Sessions available online via Zoom or in person - whichever you are most comfortable with.
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Therapy Dog:
The use of therapy dogs, or as is more formally known, animal assisted interventions, are becoming a popular and well regarded method of therapy.
The benefits of this controlled interaction are vast; the therapy dog is non-judgemental, accepting, and can be a soothing therapeutic presence, helping the reduction of stress and anxiety, alleviating loneliness and isolation, and can also help you to re-establish your own sense of trust.
Occasionally, and only on agreement, we may have the option to invite Douglas into session. If this is of interest to you, or if you would simply like more information about Douglas, please just ask.
Training, qualifications & experience
- MBACP (Accred) Registered Member of the British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy
- Dip. Couns Adults
- Adv. Dip. Couns Children & Young People
- Adv. Dip. Couns Rape & Sexual Abuse
- EMDR P1, 2, 3 & 4
- Cert. Mental Health First Aid
- Cert. Creative Art Therapy
- Cert. Bereavement & Loss
- Cert. Palliative Care
- Cert. Rewind Technique - PTSD
- Cert. Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction
- Cert: Mindfulness Based Cognitive Therapy
- Cert. Online & Telephone Counselling
- I hold an NVQ 3 in British Sign Language
- 12 years working in Private Practice
- 18 years working with adolescents
- 11 years working with GP referrals through IAPT & EAP
- 6 years Counselling in NHS Cardiac Rehab and long term health conditions
- I have been working with East Kent Rape Crisis Centre for the last 3 years.
And have attended a vast number of certificated training courses including:
- Understanding Self-Injury and Self-harm
- Rape & Childhood Sexual Abuse
- Shame & Abuse
- LGBTQ+
- Neuro-Linguistic Programming
- Acceptance and Commitment Therapy
- Emotional Freedom Technique - Tapping
- Trauma and the body
I am committed to the ethical, non-discriminatory practice and abide by the principles and ethics of the BACP: confidentiality is assured at all times.
Member organisations
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BACP is one of the UK’s leading professional bodies for counselling and psychotherapy with around 60,000 members. The Association has several different categories of membership, including Student Member, Individual Member, Registered Member MBACP, Registered Accredited Member MBACP (Accred) and Senior Registered Accredited Member MBACP (Snr Acccred).
Registered and accredited members are listed on the BACP Register, which shows that they have demonstrated BACP’s recommended standards for training, proficiency and ethical practice. The BACP Register was the first register of psychological therapists to be accredited by the Professional Standards Authority (PSA).
Accredited and senior accredited membership are voluntary categories for members who choose to undertake a rigorous application and assessment process to demonstrate additional standards around practice, training and supervision.
Individual members will have completed an appropriate counselling or psychotherapy course and started to practise, but they won’t appear on the BACP Register until they've demonstrated that they meet the standards for registration. Student members are still in the process of completing their training.
All members are bound by the BACP Ethical Framework and a Professional Conduct Procedure.
Accredited register membership
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Areas of counselling I deal with
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Fees
£70.00 per session
Free initial telephone session
Concessions offered for
Additional information
£70.00 Individual sessions payable via bank transfer 24 hours in advance.
When I work
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Monday: 10 - 8 pm
Tuesday: 10 - 8 pm
Wednesday: 9 - 6pm
Thursday: 10 - 7 pm
Further information
I offer a 15 minute initial consultation telephone call. It is free of charge and designed to provide us with the opportunity to ask questions and importantly for you to make sure you feel comfortable talking with me.
All being well, we may then go on to discuss the possibility of future sessions.
Subsequent sessions are charged at £60. per 50 minute session. I have a limited number of spaces at concessionary rates which are negotiated individually depending on a client's circumstances and needs.
