Toby Messer

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Barry CF62 & Chepstow NP16
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About me

My name is Toby, and I am a solution-focused and analytical psychotherapist. I centre my work on understanding the root of our behaviour and emotions while striving to facilitate active and meaningful change in the present. By integrating behavioural approaches such as CBT, REBT, DBT, and others with the depth of more analytical approaches like psychodynamic and analytical methods, I can work in a more effective and long-lasting way.

I pride myself on tailoring my approach and using my understanding of neurodiversity, including ADHD and Autism, to help anyone who needs it. 

Although I work with most presenting problems, including anxiety and depression, I specialise in and have a wealth of experience in working with relationships, both with individuals and couples, as well as grief and loss in all its presentations. This unique approach, which I have used over the past 11 years, has shown positive success in all areas. If you have any questions about how I can help, please don't hesitate to ask.

Training, qualifications & experience

I am a Registered Counsellor with the National counselling society. I have an Advanced professional Diploma in psychotherapeutic counselling and an Advanced Diploma in Counselling skills. I am a member of the National counselling society with the use of the designatory letters MNCS Accred. I am guided and abide by their professional practice guidelines. I receive regular clinical supervision and am fully insured to practice.

I have worked in a variety of mental health settings, educational and the voluntary sector. My experience includes, Child & Adolescent Mental Health, Adult Mental Health, Community Mental Health and Substance Abuse/Addiction teams.

During my clinical work I have supported clients with a range of psychological difficulties including; addictions, anxiety, anger, depression, low self esteem, post traumatic stress, social phobia, truma, grief and loss, stress and relationship problems.

Member organisations

Registered / Accredited

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NCPS
National Counselling & Psychotherapy Society (NCPS)

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In 2013 the NCS register was accredited by the Professional Standards Authority under the Accredited Voluntary Register Scheme. Accredited by the Professional Standards Authority.

Accredited register membership

National Counselling & Psychotherapy Society
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Fees

£55.00 per session
Free initial telephone or online session

Additional information

Online counselling £55 per session

Couples counselling online - £75 per session

When I work

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Morning
Afternoon
Evening
Night

I am available between 8am and 9pm, Monday to Friday.

Barry, Vale of Glamorgan, CF62

Chepstow, Gloucestershire, NP16

Type of session

Online
Phone

Types of client

Young people (13-17)
Young adults (18-24)
Adults (25-64)
Older Adults (65+)
Couples
Families
Groups
Organisations
Employee Assistance Programme

Key details

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Online platforms

Whatsapp
Zoom
Discord
Doxy
FaceTime
Google Meet
Microsoft Teams
Skype
VSee

Supervision

In person
Online
Phone

I am an Integrative Counsellor and Supervisor.

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