Sophie Spiegler (Dip - MBACP)
Working with over 13 years of counselling and mentoring experience, I offer an empathic, non-judgemental space for you to be heard and understood. Working with both personal and professional experience we go at your pace, with what you want to bring, be it your past, present, or your future.
I am trauma informed, meaning if you have experienced trauma in your life, we can work safely to avoid overwhelm.
I specialise in working with people who have been impacted by dysfunction in their lives; perhaps you have family issues, or have a parent with addiction problems or mental health problems, experienced childhood trauma and abuse, experienced family conflict, suffer with anxiety, or would like support with communicating with family, friends or colleagues but find if difficult to manage your emotions. You may be feeling sad, wonder if you have depression, or perhaps you have had a baby and are concerned you may have post natal depression.
(I offer home visits for when childcare is an issue, for mums)
We work together to find understanding and meaning from your life experiences, explore skills to manage in everyday life and move towards healing.
What to expect
After you get in touch, we will meet to see if counselling is right for you. If we decide to work together, we will set up our sessions and begin our therapy. There is time for you to ask questions about the process, discuss what you would like to get out of the therapy and ask any questions you may have about me and the way that I work.
Who comes for therapy?
You may want to come for therapy because you have no where else to turn, and are in crisis. As the stigma of mental and emotional health decreases, you may wish to come to therapy because you recognise you would like support and whilst you may be surviving life, you may be fed up with the status quo and want to move to thriving. Childhood issues may be holding you back from living the life you know you want.
Therapy can be many things for many people but primality it is time dedicated to you to explore what you need. Perhaps you want to work on your self esteem, due to low self confidence, or want to reduce the amount of stress in your life. You may have old self-harm behaviours or recognise attachment disorder or a feeling of dissociation from your life. Together we work to help you get the most from your therapy, to meet your needs.
I also offer walking therapy - just a short walk away from the therapy room, we can walk in nature which can bring new perspective to your life. The physical act of moving can help to shift painful feelings, invite you to feel more grounded and build more connection to self.
Get in touch
Please get in touch through email or phone call, where we will talk briefly about why you would like therapy. From there we will arrange to meet and I will answer any questions you may have about the process. I understand that taking the first step can be scary and disorientating and is often the hardest but most rewarding step to take.
Training, qualifications & experience
I trained at R-Vision in an transpersonal Integrative model - described as a psychotherapy with a soulful perspective. My model includes theories from Freud, Jung, Fritz Pearls and Yalom, as well as modalities including Gestalt, Existential, Humanistic, Neuroscience, Family systems and Archetypal.
What that means;
- We will work in the here and now and provide you with skills to build resilience to manage stress
- We will learn emotional intelligence, to help you manage your feelings
- We can explore your past experiences and how they have shaped you
- We will take into context your family, cultural and social life, to explore how they continue to shape and impact you
- We can include awareness of a spiritual context, should you wish to
The modality is an holistic modality which includes body, mind and soul.
Additional training includes;
- Group therapy
- Play therapy
- Sibling rivalry
- Working with metaphor
- Online mentor training
- Non-violent communication
- Working with sexual abuse and violence
- In utero experience
- Working with SEND
- Working with substance misuse and cultural awareness.
- Peer attachment
- Working with shame
- Working with dreams
- Working with the body
My experience includes working with;
- Depression and post natal depression
- Panic disorder
- Sexual abuse
- Emotional abuse
- Childhood trauma incl. domestic violence
- Family issues and dysfunction
- Low self-esteem and low self-confidence
- Children of addicts
I have worked with adults face to face, on Skype and telephone and online. I work with adults and young people (18+ currently). I also offer walking therapy. I have worked with children, however am not currently taking on clients under 16 years old.
For testimonials please see my website; familychanges.co.uk and for further insight into my work please read my blogs. These blogs can also offer you the chance to reflect on your self in a self development capacity.
Areas of counselling I deal with
- Affairs and betrayals
- Attachment disorder
- Bipolar disorder
- Body dysmorphic disorder
- Carer support
- Chronic fatigue syndrome/ME
- Domestic violence
- Emotional abuse
- Family issues
- Feeling sad
- Generalised anxiety disorder
- Low self-confidence
- Low self-esteem
- Panic disorder
- Physical abuse
- Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)
- Postnatal depression
- Pregnancy and birth
- Relationship problems
- Seasonal affective disorder (SAD)
- Separation and divorce
- Sex problems
- Sexual abuse
- Suicidal thoughts
- Work-related stress
Photos & videos
£60 for 60 minute sessions
£50 concession for students and low income families (spaces limited)
£90 for 90 minute session of short term solution focussed sessions, which include follow up notes and homework, as well as 1 accountability email in between sessions when booking 2 or more
- Being good enough
- Core wounding
- How bad does it have to get?
- What does postnatal sadness look like to you?
- Anxiety - the whys and the hows
- Loneliness and shame - we live in a world of loneliness
- Love and blame - how to move through the impossible
- What happens in therapy?
- Self care at Christmas time
- Top 10 tips to managing anxiety
- Engaging with therapy like we do with the GP
There is free on street / driveway parking available at all times.
Based 0.7 miles from Finchley Central Tube Station (7 - 15 minute walk depending on speed)
Arden Road (stop P & stop N) for the bus, is 250 yards away.
Maps & Directions
Type of session
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The counselling room is on the ground floor, there is one step into the room to navigate and I will work with the individual to meet their needs in order to negotiate this step.
I have both day time and evening sessions available Monday - Friday and a Saturday morning session at 10am. I also work bank holidays.
Types of client