Patrick Belas BSc MSW MA UKCP Registered

Patrick Belas BSc MSW MA UKCP Registered

Wisdom Centre
Wisdom House
SO51 8EL

07949 218769

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About me

Thank you for your interest in my profile.

Here is some more information which I hope will help in your search for a suitable counsellor or therapist.

I welcome any questions from visitors as my replies can help people make more informed decisions about which counsellor and/or approach might be better for them.  I also learn what is important to those visiting the site. Any questions can be left on my email or phone.

If you are uncertain about how to choose a counsellor or therapist it may be useful that after reading and comparing counsellor's profiles,  an initial phone call and/or face to face meeting with a counsellor, and then trusting your intuition can often be the best evidence for a final decision.

Part of the service I provide is to help you consider what if any type of counselling or therapy might be most useful to you as an individual, or as part of a couple, family or group. As a dual qualified professional with significant training and experience in many multidisciplinary settings across the country, I am able to offer a broader understanding of different counselling and therapy approaches for people to consider, some of which I may be able to provide but importantly knowing those I am not. I do however have a good knowledge of other counsellors/therapists/psychotherapists who may be able to help in these circumstances.

In terms of my working life,  I worked as a Family and Systemic Psychotherapist (also called Family Therapist) in the NHS for 15 years and was Head of Family Psychotherapy. Qualifications include a BSc honours degree in Psychology and an MA in Family Psychotherapy from the Tavistock Clinic in London. I also hold a Post Graduate University of Surrey qualification as a Supervisor.

I am fully qualified and registered with the main national registering body (United Kingdom Council for Psychotherapy - UKCP) as a Family and Systemic Psychotherapy and as a Supervisor. In addition I am listed on UKCP's separate register for those working with children and young people under 18. (If you would like more information about this paragraph, and why it is important please see the section *below).

My interests are on people's relationship issues, dilemmas or difficulties and how these affect or are affected by individual's worries or difficulties.  Uncovering possible strengths and resources around us (which may follow reflecting on our roles and identities), as well as actively considering new ways of thinking and behaving can be useful routes towards better managing our lives and finding new solutions to old problems.This is partly what Family Therapists bring to counselling and therapy.

I have spent many years closely attending to how and what people say in order to understand in more detail their own experiences and views on their problems, their abilities, and what available support (or lack of) from family, friends and wider relationships may have existed. Also finding out what people have tried so far is key to understanding each person's unique situation.

After such a process of appreciation,  a more tailored approach to supporting realistic and effective change or adjustment is likely.

Difficulties like anxiety, depression, family and personal relationship problems can sometimes become intrusive to our everyday lives and may edge us towards seeking professional support.  I can help. I also see people where longer term traumas such as struggling to survive sexual or physical abuse or neglectful/damaging relationships significantly impact on their health and wellbeing as well as those they care about. These are highly personal and sensitive matters in which I have substantial experience.

In addition to a knowledge, expertise and interest in a wide range of problems we all face, I have also continued to develop special areas of interest. Currently, these include working with families with adult children where there are problems that have or might harm family relationships. Another special interest is in helping parents help their children, when they feel that past or current marital difficulties  have detrimentally affected them and their attempts so far to help have been of limited success.

Sometimes people don't have a clear problem or reason for wanting to see a counsellor or therapist, but may just feel unfulfilled, bored or moody, wanting to find new ways to just "be" or to develop as a person, or learn from previous "mistakes." These too can be a basis for seeking counselling or therapy.

I offer to see families, couples, parents, friends and individuals depending on what people think might be better for them.

For professionals working in Health, Community or Charitable organisations who are seeking general support or supervision, I can be of service. I have provided this to a wide variety of colleagues from very different trainings, disciplines and backgrounds, as well as qualified Family Psychotherapists over many years both in my NHS work and privately. If uncertain whether I may be of help, I'd welcome a message or any questions.

I hope the above goes some way in helping you decide which of the registered counsellors, therapists or Supervisors you may consider talking to as a next step.

Although my phone is often diverted to voicemail I listen on weekdays daily and try to respond within 2 working days (as I do my email) so please contact me if you think I could be of further help in your search.

Patrick Belas

*     Only those who are so qualified and registered with UKCP specifically as a Family Psychotherapist or Family Therapist meet the high standards which the NHS in particular set for those calling themselves or providing Family Therapy. The NHS will not employ anyone for such a specialist post without proof of such an advanced training and specific upto date UKCP registration. I think this is important for the public to know because individuals with UKCP registration as a Family Therapist have:

  • undertaken a minimum number of hours in seeing families including children for therapy
  • attended a minimum number of hours per year additional training directly related to  Family Therapy
  • been meeting with a senior and registered Family Therapist on a regular basis to discuss and develop their work and address their training and professional development
  • agreed to an ethical code of practice which if breached will mean sanctions
  • to be answerable to the public, employers and UKCP for any complaints made about them. There is a formal process for such complaints and the more serious if proven can lead to de-registration from UKCP

Training, qualifications & experience

  • BSc (hons) Psychology
  • Masters Degree in Social Work
  • MA Degree in Family and Systemic Psychotherapy (Tavistock Clinic London)
  • Post Graduate Qualification in Supervision and Consultation
  • Training and experience covering over 30 years with children, parents and families in NHS and Local Authority specialist teams.
  • Just under 30 years of working within a number of NHS multidisciplinary specialist child and adolescent mental health teams (CAMHS) in London and Hampshire.
  • Joint leadership of an Eating Disorders Team
  • I recently retired from the NHS but have been simultaneously been running for some time a small private Psychotherapy service. This has included Family,  Parenting and Marital work as well as helping with broader relationship difficulties within or outside the home including those that are employment based.
  • Professional supervision and consultation has also formed a significant part of my private work where other family psychotherapist, counsellors, therapists, nurses or colleagues working as carers can access specialist help when working with couples, families or other relationship.

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£100 for initial appointment

£85 for follow up appointments

Free initial phone or email consultation

Maps & Directions

Romsey, SO51 8EL

Type of session

Online counselling: No
Telephone counselling: No
Face to face counselling: Yes
Home visits: No

Practical details

Sign language: No
Other languages: None


Accessibility information
Wheelchair access: Yes

The Therapy room is based in a small building in central Romsey. There is a receptionist and waiting area. The Toilets are close by and are wheelchair accessible.


Please leave any messages or questions on my email or phone. I check these daily on weekdays and plan to reply within 2 working days.

Types of client

Young people
Older adults

Supervision & training

Are you are a counsellor, therapist, psychotherapist, doctor or other professional, including those in training, working with families  and finding it particularly challenging? This maybe a good moment to consider external support with a registered and qualified specialist Family and Systemic Psychotherapist who has a University post graduate qualification in Supervision and Consultation.

Online supervision:No
Telephone supervision:Yes
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