Mike Gray, Relationship Counsellor

Mike Gray, Relationship Counsellor

Central Kingston
Kingston Upon Thames


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About me

I offer couples counselling in Kingston upon Thames.

It’s painful when your relationship isn't working. Perhaps you are wondering whether to work at it, or just leave? The person who should be the source of your support has become the source of your difficulty. Perhaps you are wondering whether it’s partly you?

I specialise in couple problems, and I can help you to resolve them. I work with couples who are having relationship difficulties such as:

  • arguments
  • an affair or infidelity
  • disagreements over parenting, over money, over in-laws...
  • one partner isn't sure they want to stay
  • one or both partners are troubled by depression.

Maybe you are having arguments over tiny things: the dishwasher, closing the drawer, the remote control. That's not at all unusual. Or maybe it's big stuff: trust, parenting, in-laws. Trying to talk about these things has become too difficult - it's too repetitive, or blows up out of control, or your partner just refuses to engage. These are the problems I see every day.

I also often work with individuals on relationship issues - either to help you understand a relationship that has ended - or to work on your current relationship if your partner won't come along.

Training, qualifications & experience

I am a registered member of BACP and am bound by their code of ethical conduct. This includes requirements for proper training, professional supervision, ongoing update training, and insurance.

I am also a member of RELATE's register of professional couple counsellors. I trained with RELATE, and with the Tavistock Centre for Couple Relationships.

Member organisations


Accredited register membership

Other areas of counselling I deal with

  • Marriage issues
  • Couples troubled by depression
  • Infidelity
  • Arguments
  • Masculinity in today's world


Please see my own website for current details of availability and fees.

Maps & Directions

Kingston Upon Thames, KT2

Type of session

Online counselling: No
Telephone counselling: No
Face to face counselling: Yes
Home visits: No

Practical details

Sign language: No
Other languages: None


Accessibility information
Wheelchair user access:


Please see my website for availability.

Types of client

Older adults