Matt Valentine-Chase

Matt Valentine-Chase

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Gestalt Centre
15-23 St. Pancras Way
Kings Cross

The Wonder Inn
29 Shudehill
Northern Quarter
Greater Manchester
M4 2AF

+44 7925 185206

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Gestalt Centre
15-23 St. Pancras Way
Kings Cross

The Wonder Inn
29 Shudehill
Northern Quarter
Greater Manchester
M4 2AF

+44 7925 185206

About me

Hi there, everyone is welcome here and please do see the website, where you will also see general therapy and counselling in addition to my specialist area which is sex, intimacy and better pleasure. New lower prices: accessible therapy for all.

I work with sex problems, sex addictions and assist people who are struggling in their intimate relationships.

You can book your appointment to take place via: Skype - FaceTime - Telebond (online therapy platform) - Telephone and Face-to-face. Online counselling is the most popular way to work with me. Therapy and coaching via Skype, FaceTime or over the phone is great when you need help fast, it can also be more convenient.

Face-to-face appointments take place in London at the Gestalt Centre on a monthly basis.

Sex and relationship counselling is:

  • A space to talk about your sex and relationship life
  • Safer sex concerns
  • Safer and more fulfilling intimacy
  • Appropriate use of porn
  • General sexual development
  • BDSM, Polyamory and alternative relationships
  • Confusion or questioning around your sexual preference
  • Struggles or concerns with your gender identification
  • Sex problems in general such as performance
  • Sex or porn addiction and
  • anything you want to talk about

Maybe you want to talk about something other than sex and need to work with someone who is down to earth and qualified in generic therapy and counselling. This means that I can support you with issues such as anxiety and depression, confusion or stuckness in life direction, addictions, sexual or gender confusion to name a few. Feel free to get in touch for a no-obligation informal chat. The website will also give you a bigger view of my background and training.

I believe that every client can find the right therapist for them. Often it is down to personality as well as qualifications and experience. My approach is warm, open and grounded and I consider myself to be 'heart-centred'.

LGBTQI Affirmative - Sex Positive - HandiAble Friendly - Sex Worker Friendly

Training, qualifications & experience

Diploma in Counselling (University of Manchester)

Diploma in Health and Community Care (Royal Institute)

Certificate in Counselling (University of Manchester)
Certificate in Intermediate Counselling (South Cheshire College)
Practitioner Certificate in Time Line Therapy (R) (The Sothic Centre)
Certificate in Substance Misuse Awareness Studies (ASET)
USUI System of Natural Healing (Master) Please enquire for specifics.

I have been qualified in counselling and therapy since 2002, am insured to practice and am a registered member of the BACP for my counselling and therapy work. I am what is often called an empath, which is a big part of the work that I do.

I have worked both in private practice and for organisations including the NHS. I have managed and co-ordinated crisis management counselling, worked for young person's organisations, drug centres and generic counselling services.

I have extensive experience of helping people with struggles such as: anxiety, depression, relationship problems, sex problems, sexuality questioning, gender confusion, drug addiction, grief, mid life crises, personal and spiritual development as a few examples. I also specialise in helping people to look at the connection between mindfulness and better sex.

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Accredited register membership

Other areas of counselling I deal with

Support for everybody to emotionally deal with:

  • Sexual dysfunction men (erection problems, premature ejaculation etc.)
  • Sexual dysfunction women (dryness, painful sex, etc.)
  • Sex and relationship problems
  • Sexual stuckness ('same old same old')
  • Sex addiction
  • Safer sex
  • Safer fetish
  • BDSM and polyamory
  • Sex and disability (see 'Sex and Disability' page on website)

Specialism for professional sex workers:

  • Sex worker stigma and managing this
  • Coping with internalised whoreaphobia
  • Societal change for sex workers and looking at empowerment
  • Sex worker stuckness (wishing to leave the Industry)
  • Professional and career development (wishing to stay in the industry)
  • Safer sex and professional boundaries
  • Safety, screening and privacy
  • General needs around counselling and therapy
  • Emotional support

*Sex worker definition: escorts, sauna workers, massage parlour staff, Courtesans, rent boys, call girls, adult performers and strippers, cammers, dancers etc. You will be welcome here. Discounts available if you are in genuine need (this goes for everyone).

Photos & videos

  • Matt-at-Lotus Sex Coach and Therapist
  • Counselling for sexworkers
  • Training For Organisations



1 Hour session via Skype/FaceTime/Telebond/Telephone: £60.00

1 Hour in Manchester face-to-face: £60.00 (Limited Availability)


1 Hour session via Skype/FaceTime/Telebond/Telephone: £80.00

1 Hour session in Manchester: £80.00 (Limited Availability)

1 Hour session in London: £80.00

Initial telephone 'quick chat' (which can be booked): Free

NB Counselling and coaching sessions last one full hour. Please see website for further options. The free quick chat is a chance for you to get a feel for my personality and to see if my way of working resonates with you. It's fine in this quick chat to give me a brief background of why you want to have coaching/therapy.

Payment by: PayPal, Bank Transfer, Bitcoin (all in advance). For Telebond bookings (Telebond is an online platform for therapists) payment is taken on the Telebond site.

Further information

I am sex worker friendly. This means that I welcome sex workers who often struggle to find a non-judgemental therapist/coach. I have a positive view of the industry. Please see website for details (click on 'Counselling for Sex Workers').

Workshops on better sex and intimacy: upcoming events: better sex and sex talk, sex and disability, becoming a heart-centred practitioner, safer kink, being present for better sex and more. Please see these listed on the website.

I also provide bespoke training for individuals, support workers, therapists and organisations on how to work with sex workers appropriately.

I work with anyone over the age of 18 for counselling and 21 for coaching. I have a recent clear DBS form. I very much look forward to meeting you!

Maps & Directions

London, NW1 0PT
Manchester, M4 2AF

Type of session

Online counselling: Yes
Telephone counselling: Yes
Face to face counselling: Yes

Practical details

Sign language: No
Other languages: None


Wheelchair accessible premises: Unspecified


10am - 12mn Mon-Fri 11am-11pm Sat and Sun

Types of client

Young people
Older adults
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