Bell Selkie (Lovelock) Counsellor and Nature-Based Human Development Guide
I'm Bell and I'm offering warm, soulful and creative emotional support from my yurt in some wild woods alive with birds, deer and other beings by a little stream... I've been told many times that the peace of the place is a remedy in its own right and I find it to be healing too.
I've been counselling for 12 years, working with a wide range of issues and gathering various tools along the way.
I'm inviting you to:
- Explore your inner nature.
- Remember and value the inner resources you already have.
- Develop parts of yourself that are not fully available to you.
- Live a wilder, freer and deeper life that feels purposeful and fulfilling.
Most of us start looking for counselling/therapy when an issue presents itself - depression, anxiety, despair, betrayal, relationship stresses, trauma ,sense of inadequacy , hopelessness, lack of motivation, addictions, self harm... all of these are ways in which our feelings communicate to us that something in our life and way of being is missing.
For many of us this is not an easy world to live in and these struggles and issues, though extremely difficult, are often a fair response to the craziness and disconnection of the culture we are in. My job as an independent, perceptive, non critical and trustworthy guide is to support you to lovingly tend to yourself and remember how to thrive...By tending to your inner nature, through exploring ways of wholing and self healing, the "issues" naturally lessen or cease because they no longer have a need to so forcefully draw your attention to an imbalance in the way you are living.
How I work
I work within the web of nature – which means that, no matter how we work, I never lose sight of you as belonging to earth and part of that bigger picture, affected by weathers, seasons, cycles and the environmental problems that are impacting earth and us now. As well as the normal counselling models in which I’m trained and experienced (for those interested - person centred, humanistic, integrative, cognitive behavioural therapy, Transactional Analysis, Mindfulness ) I refer to a nature based map of the psyche and model of human development too. How much we actually do eco-therapy or work out on the land is up to you – there’s plenty of wildness in each of us - in our dreams, deep imaginations, shadows and yearnings to explore without leaving the yurt !
As well as listening with the ears of my heart and mirroring back to you your own knowing and wisdom (with the wonder that i always feel when people are willing to show up for themselves), some of the tools i may use are focusing, Inner child work, inner dialogue work. deep imagination, expressive arts, authentic movement, nature based and deep nature connection practices, dreamwork and humour..
What to do now
Please get in contact for a chat! Click here to send me an email.
I can work short term or long, though one session can sometimes be enough.
Training, qualifications & experience
Accredited member of BACP with Diploma in Counselling
Accredited member of NCFE with Diploma in Therapeutic Coaching
Completed training with Animas Valley Institute in Wild Mind Training Programme
Extra training in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy , Transactional Analysis, Working with Children and Young People, Addiction, Sexual abuse, Self harm, Trauma, Sexuality , Working with Groups,Counselling online.
Landscape Architecture BA (hons) and Post Graduate Diploma.
Neighbourhood Mediation training with Newport mediation service
Consensus decision making /Conflict resolution training /Facitilation training
currently completing Soul Midwifery Training .
Counselling , Support and Therapeutic Experience:
Counsellor for Lampeter University Student Services.
Primary Health Care Brief Intervention Counselling for Carmarthenshire Counselling Service
Mindwellbeing online counselling service
Private counselling practice
Nature Connection Womans Group
Art of Mentoring staff for 8 Shields Institute UK.
Rape Crisis Support Worker for New Pathways
Accredited register membership
Areas of counselling I deal with
- Affairs and betrayals
- Anger management
- Anorexia nervosa
- Attachment disorder
- Attachment disorder in children
- Behaviour problems
- Binge-eating disorder
- Bipolar disorder
- Body dysmorphic disorder
- Bulimia nervosa
- Carer support
- Child related issues
- Childhood bereavement
- Childhood bullying
- Children’s learning difficulties
- Chronic fatigue syndrome/ME
- Depression and anxiety in children
- Domestic violence
- Drug abuse
- Eating disorders
- Emotional abuse
- Family issues
- Feeling sad
- Gender dysphoria
- Generalised anxiety disorder
- Hearing voices
- Internet addiction
- Learning difficulties
- Low self-confidence
- Low self-esteem
- Obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD)
- Panic disorder
- Passive aggressive behaviour
- Physical abuse
- Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)
- Postnatal depression
- Pregnancy and birth
- Relationship issues
- Seasonal affective disorder (SAD)
- Separation and divorce
- Separation anxiety
- Sex addiction
- Sex problems
- Sexual abuse
- Suicidal thoughts
- Work-related stress
- Young carers
Other areas of counselling I deal with
£ 40 - £55 sliding scale for individuals for 1 hour
I do keep a couple of spaces for unwaged, students, counselling trainees and concessions so please do ask .
Maps & Directions
Type of session
|Face to face counselling:||Yes|
I'm available most weekdays and can do some evenings too.
Types of client