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Registered Member MBACP

About me

Sometimes unwanted feelings, bad memories or life stresses become too much to bear and we look for someone to help us get through these difficult times. Sometimes troubling behaviour patterns or difficult memories won’t go away. Too often people don’t want to burden friends or family with their feelings or may not feel able to share difficult thoughts with them.

June is the start of summer but can also be another trigger for anxiety and stress with pressure to achieve grades in exams. It is also hard for parents who may be trying to mask their feelings of loss of the last child to leave home. It can be another hard time for people affected by adoption. For birth parents wondering whether how their child became and thoughts around being contacted, for adoptees wondering who they are and starting the search for birth family and adopters fears or concerns over what might happen to their family as a result of this upheaval.

I'm here to help you find your way through these difficulties.

I have indicated the personal problem areas that I have direct experience helping clients work through as a guide to people looking for a counsellor. I work with the whole person before me so don't apply labels to their problems, so you may not find a label that applies specifically to your sense of what is wrong. You bring what you need to work with to the session, I don't direct what we explore together.

I am a Registered Member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy and work to their Ethical Framework, and am working towards Accreditation.

My previous work experience includes work in both industry and community organisations in a range of roles.

Training, qualifications & experience

My counselling qualifications include:

  • Diploma (HE) Person-centred counselling and human relations, Bradford College
  • Awareness in Bereavement Counselling, Cruse
  • Certificate (HE) Counselling skills, Keighley College

Post qualification training and experience has included play therapy with Place2Be and adoption counselling training. In the last few years I have also had training on working with trauma including those people who were abused as children.

I have worked as a counsellor with many people bringing a wide range of personal issues including bereavement, relationship problems, domestic violence, parenting problems, low self-esteem, bullying, anger, abuse, panic attacks, self harm, childhood or family problems, depression and anxieties. I have worked with young people as well as adults in private practice and at a sixth form college counselling service.

I was a bereavement volunteer with Cruse Bereavement Care for several years, including a period on the management committee. I previously worked at Aura Therapy and Counselling in Keighley and  Sure Start Counselling in Calderdale. I volunteered with Place2Be for over 2 years working as a play therapist in primary schools.

I am a science graduate, working as a research technician in Cambridge and Leeds before moving to roles as MP's case worker and community development worker. I am married with a grown up son.

Member organisations


British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy (BACP)

BACP is one of the UK’s leading professional bodies for counselling and psychotherapy with around 60,000 members. The Association has several different categories of membership, including Student Member, Individual Member, Registered Member MBACP, Registered Accredited Member MBACP (Accred) and Senior Registered Accredited Member MBACP (Snr Acccred).

Registered and accredited members are listed on the BACP Register, which shows that they have demonstrated BACP’s recommended standards for training, proficiency and ethical practice. The BACP Register was the first register of psychological therapists to be accredited by the Professional Standards Authority (PSA).

Accredited and senior accredited membership are voluntary categories for members who choose to undertake a rigorous application and assessment process to demonstrate additional standards around practice, training and supervision.

Individual members will have completed an appropriate counselling or psychotherapy course and started to practise, but they won’t appear on the BACP Register until they've demonstrated that they meet the standards for registration. Student members are still in the process of completing their training.

All members are bound by the BACP Ethical Framework and a Professional Conduct Procedure.

Accredited register membership

British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy

Accredited Register Scheme

The Accredited Register Scheme was set up in 2013 by the Department of Health (DoH) as a way to recognise organisations that hold voluntary registers which meet certain standards. These standards are set by the Professional Standards Authority (PSA).

This therapist has indicated that they belong to an Accredited Register.

British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy

Other areas of counselling I deal with

Adoption counselling for people looking for pre-adoption counselling, people who have been affected by adoption whether as birth or adoption family and people who have been adopted (both formally through agencies or informally within families).


From £35.00 to £55.00

Concessions offered for

  • Low income
  • Keyworkers
  • OAPs
  • Students
  • Trainee counsellors
  • Unemployed

Additional information

Initial meeting - reduced rate of £25

We will learn more about each other and I will find out more about your needs and if I can help you. It's then your decision whether or not to have counselling with me.

Appointments can be made for daytime and evening sessions.

Standard rate of £45, Early/late appointments £55
Reduced rate of £35
(per 50 minute session)

When I work

Mon Tue Wed Thu Fri Sat Sun

Weekdays including early evening. Appointment times can vary for people working shifts or away from home.

Further information

My counselling room in the Dearne Valley is less than 30 minutes away from Sheffield, Rotherham, Doncaster and Barnsley and 10 minutes away from Mexborough, Swinton and Wath upon Dearne.

1 Crow Tree Lane, Adwick Upon Dearne, Mexborough, South Yorkshire, S64 0NT

Type of session

In person

Types of client

Young people
Older adults
Employee Assistance Programme

Key details

Wheelchair user access

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