About me

I'm a couples counsellor and I love helping couples have less conflict and more connection.  Maybe you just want to get to a place where you don't keep arguing and things are more calm or you want more connection and more intimacy, and more fun together.

If you’ve been wondering sometimes if you'd be better off splitting up because you can't carry on living this way anymore, there is hope for you as a couple.  I will help you to break the habits you're in right now and find a better way to communicate.

I provide a safe space to discuss things in a way that you can't do at home, without it causing a big argument and I love to see couples get along better.

It is the best investment of your time and money, to start a process that will enhance your relationship.  It has the side benefit of modelling a good healthy relationship for your children You know they don’t want to see you fighting but you don’t know how to get out of this negative dance you keep repeating right now.

I will show you how to calm down and calm each other down you will start to notice the atmosphere changing and becoming more relaxed, have more peace and enjoy doing things together.

All this leads to greater sense of connection and intimacy as a couple, which means a happier home and family life.

Training, qualifications & experience

Carole was trained at Relate as a couples counsellor and then trained as a Human Givens therapist so she has tools to calm couples down and also to treat underlying anxiety and depression and trauma.  This is useful as sometimes individual issues need to be addressed in order to have the best outcome possible from the couples counselling.

Member organisations


Human Givens Institute

The Human Givens Institute (HGI) is both a membership organisation and a professional body representing the interests of those in the caring and teaching professions who have an interest in or utilise the human givens approach. Counselling Directory register Registered Members (MHGI) and Fellow Members (FHGI), who will have completed the Post Graduate Practitioner's Assessment (Part III) and who are fully qualified to practise as a human givens therapist or counsellor. Accredited by the Professional Standards Authority.

Accredited register membership

Human Givens Institute

Accredited Register Scheme

The Accredited Register Scheme was set up in 2013 by the Department of Health (DoH) as a way to recognise organisations that hold voluntary registers which meet certain standards. These standards are set by the Professional Standards Authority (PSA).

This therapist has indicated that they belong to an Accredited Register.

Other areas of counselling I deal with

Borderline personality disorder using Dialetic Behavioural Therapy, developed by Marsha Lineham


Monday to Friday, 9am - 5pm. There is some availability outside of these hours. Call to discuss

Also registered with Hypnotherapy Directory.

25 Limes Avenue
N12 8QN

Type of session

In person

Types of client

Young people
Older adults
Employee Assistance Programme

Key details

The counselling room is on the first floor and there is a stair case. If this is difficult or impossible for you, please ask by phone to be seen on the ground floor as this can be arranged with some prior notice.


Carole Nyman

Carole Nyman