Selina Patankar-Owens Reg. (Accred) MBACP
Relationships in our past influence our present, break the cycle, understand yourself and decide to change. Seeking support can seem like a failure or weakness, but rest assured it is the most courageous thing a person can do.
I have an MSc Psychodynamic Counselling and MSc Health Psychology and have worked in the field of welfare for the last 15 years in corporate, charitable, higher education and NHS settings as well as in my private practice. In each role, I have been involved in the care and psychological wellbeing of children and adults.
I hold a qualification in Clinical Supervision and am a Registered Accredited member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP). As a BACP member, I abide by their ethical framework.
I work with clients to explore emotional experiences. I have worked with the following presentations:
Abuse, Addictions, Anger Management, Bereavement, Childhood issues, Depression, Eating disorders, Identity issues, Low self-esteem/confidence, Relationship issues, Sexuality and sexual issues, Stress, Health problems, work related issues, as well as others.
I offer open ended psychotherapy and short term counselling, dependant on your needs. What I recommend is an initial consultation where we meet and explore if we can work together. I assess your needs and give you feedback, based on this we decide together what would be most beneficial for your wellbeing. I offer one to one counselling for individuals and couples.
Once counselling/psychotherapy has begun we meet weekly and explore what you bring, I use interpretation and analysis to explore what may be underlying and make links between your feelings, behaviours both historic and present. After this you may wish to make changes to your relationships or self, but you will begin to assess your life in different ways. Your perceptions may change or you may become more self-assured, whatever the result, I aim to connect your unconscious behaviour to your conscious mind and help you develop the skills to do this without me.
When we end, you will be more able to support yourself, and also seek the correct support from others should you need to.
Training, qualifications & experience
- Data Protection / Caldicott Principles
- Certificate in Counselling Supervision
- MSc Psychodynamic Counselling
- MSc Health Psychology
- BSc (Hons) Psychology with Biosciences
- Director of Student Wellbeing Services, University of Reading
- Psychodynamic Psychotherapist - Richmond, Surrey
- Operations Manager at Anchor - The Counselling Practice
- Student Counsellor at Roehampton University
- Clinical Team Lead, Europe at Workplace Options
- Voluntary Psychodynamic Counsellor at Wimbledon Guild
Accredited register membership
Areas of counselling I deal with
- Affairs and betrayals
- Anger management
- Career counselling
- Carer support
- Child related issues
- Domestic violence
- Eating disorders
- Emotional abuse
- Family issues
- Gender dysphoria
- Low self-confidence
- Low self-esteem
- Obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD)
- Passive aggressive behaviour
- Personality disorders
- Physical abuse
- Pregnancy and birth
- Relationship problems
- Separation and divorce
- Sex problems
- Sexual abuse
- Suicidal thoughts
- Work-related stress
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For Face to Face Psychotherapy/Counselling: Each 50 minute session is £60
For Couples Face to Face Counselling: Each 50 minute session is £90
For Supervision: £60 per clinical hour for one-to-one. Group rates vary.
For Continuing Professional Development: Please contact me to discuss what CPD you are looking for.
Please feel free to visit my linkedin page.
I am registered with BUPA and AXA insurance as a provider.
I am registered with Validium Group as an associate counsellor.
I have space for Therapists to use the room on days when I am not in practice, contact me for further information.
Maps & Directions
Type of session
|Face to face counselling:||Yes|
|Other languages:||Urdu, Hindi.|
|Wheelchair user access:||Yes|
I work in an office in a lift operated building close to two stations, Brentford overground and Boston Manor.
I am currently offering WhatsApp, Telephone support during this period of isolation due to Coronavirus.
Types of client
|Employee Assistance Programme|
Supervision & training
I support counsellors in groups and individually, telephonically or via Skype providing Integrative Counselling Supervision.View supervision profile