About me

I co-founded a successful private group practice in 2008, Sheffield Central Counselling.  I love this job because I am genuinely interested in my clients' experiences, and I know that counselling can transform people's lives.  It has been my privilege to be a small part of that process for hundreds of clients in Sheffield.  My aim is to open the door to change for my clients, perhaps by helping them find a new perspective on their issues, perhaps by just listening, perhaps by offering a little bit of theory.

One of my specialisms is working with clients who have alternative sexualities, especially BDSM.  I am a kink-knowledgeable counsellor and work in a non-pathologsing way with varieties of sexual and gender difference.

In addition I am experienced in work with trauma and abuse, depression and relationship difficulties.  Over the years, I've worked with most life problems, from work-related stress, mid-life crisis, infidelity, empty-nest syndrome to simple boredom and anger issues.

Here is what some of my recent clients have said about our work together:

‘I sought counselling because my interest in kink had led me into real danger. I found that part of me an alien threat. Together Bay and I didn’t just eliminate a threat- we turned that part of me into an asset I now embrace. Our work also supported me successfully through one of the major battles of my life in my employment. I am very pleased with the work we did and it has helped me to enrich my life and my relationships.’

'I just wanted to say an absolutely heartfelt thank you for everything you've done.  I'm in a hugely improved place now, and a large part of that has come from the insight and technique I've learned in our sessions.'

Training, qualifications & experience

Cert HE Counselling Skills, Dip HE Counselling, Sheffield Hallam University

MA Philosophy, BA (Hons) English Literature and Philosophy, Sheffield University

Certificate in Introduction to CBT, Manchester Centre for CBT

Certificate in Supervision, Manchester Institute for Psychotherapy

Participant in Advanced Clinical Discussion Group on Kink Issues in Therapy, Pink Therapy

In previous years I have worked as a befriender and advisor for Mental Health Charities and Trades Unions. My interest in philosophy informs my approach, which is integrative and humanistic, and I draw on both the analytic and existentialist philosophers to offer fresh perspectives to clients.

Member organisations

Registered / Accredited

Registered / Accredited

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British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy

BACP is one of the UK’s largest professional bodies for counselling and psychotherapy. Therapists registered with the Association fall into a number of different membership categories such as Individual Member, Registered Member MBACP and Registered Member MBACP (Accred), each standing for different levels of training and experience. MBACP (Accred) and MBACP (Snr Accred) members have achieved a substantial level of training and experience approved by the Association.

Registered members can be found on the BACP Register, which was the first register to achieve Accredited Voluntary Register status issued by the Professional Standards Authority. Individual Members will have completed an appropriate counselling and/or psychotherapy course and started to practise, but will not appear on the BACP Register until they've progressed to Registered Member MBACP status.

All members are bound by a Code of Ethics & Practice and a Complaints Procedure. Accredited by the Professional Standards Authority.

Accredited register membership

British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy

Accredited Register Scheme

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This therapist has indicated that they belong to an Accredited Register.

Other areas of counselling I deal with

BDSM (more commonly known as S&M). I have experience and expertise in this area and offer sensitive counselling to those who wish to work with a BDSM-aware therapist. I take a non-pathologising view of BDSM, that is, I don't see it as any sort of emotional or developmental disorder. To find out more on this topic, you can read my article 'BDSM: a new sexual orientation?' on this website.

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From £45.00 to £55.00

Additional information

Standard fee = £45 per 50 minute session for individuals, £55 for couples


I have availability Monday to Friday

Further information

Discreet premises near the centre of Sheffield, evening appointments available.

Courtwood House
Silver Street
South Yorksire
S1 2DD

Type of session

In person

Types of client

Employee Assistance Programme

Key details

Wheelchair user access

Wheelchair user access

Wheelchair-accessible premises should have step-free access for wheelchair users and individuals who are unable to climb stairs. If a counsellor's premises aren't step-free, they may offer alternative services such as telephone/web-based appointments, home visits, or meeting clients in different location, so you can choose the option that suits you best.

You can contact the counsellor to discuss the options available.

Under the Equality Act 2010 service providers have a duty to make reasonable adjustments to ensure that individuals with disabilities can access their service. You can read more about reasonable adjustments to help you to access services on the CAB website.


In person supervision
Online supervision
Telephone supervision

As a supervisor, my priorities are to ensure that supervisees feel held and safe in discussing whatever is relevant to their practice.

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Bay Whitaker

Bay Whitaker