About me
Couples and Individuals have been enabled to cope better with their feelings of anger, anxiety, feeling bullied, depressed, divorce, fidelity, gambling, incestuous desire, infidelity, promiscuity, narcissism. Also: quick to emotional anger (Tantrum), Gambling addiction, compulsions (OCD), chronic fatigue, delusions, over-worrying, exhibitionism, Obsessive-compulsive (OCD), sexual addiction, your own personal sexuality, paedophilia, internet pornography.
Fully qualified since 1996 and committed to BACP Code of Ethics. Dedicated to social diversity without discrimination. Being sensitive to issues of body image, gender, ethnicity, colour, culture, lifestyle, religious beliefs, sexual orientation, homosexual, bi-racial, bi-sexual, ambivalence, lesbian, heterosexual, transgender, age and disability.
Through Psychodynamic Psychotherapy (Talking and attentive Listening Therapy), Individuals and Couples are encouraged to understand themselves better. Learn to identify your own 'trigger points', relating to issues of depression, anxiety, anger, and psychosomatic issues i.e. Anorexia, or neurodiversity i.e. Autism, ADHD.
I encourage you to talk about your personal experiences, in confidence. Day-to-day issues and childhood memories. Talk about relationships at home and at work.
Talking and active Listening Therapy focuses on helping both parties to understand the art of communicating with others at home and work. This process offers you the opportunity to transform perspectives in these relationships.
By talking about your feelings of abandonment, abuse, adopted, anxiety, bullied, depression, your parent's divorce, your father being gay, your divorce or, loss, rejected, separated, stressed, suicidal, or concerning low self-esteem or lack of confidence, the Couple or Individual can become transformed from feeling overwhelmed, to becoming more empowered and assertive.
This approach offers an objective, non-judgemental understanding to life experiences, such as Abuse, Chronic Fatigue, Fibromyalgia, sexuality, falling in and out of love, the right person, engaged to be married, sexual intercourse, pregnancy, IVF, conception, miscarriage, abortion, a first baby, separation, infidelity, pornography, divorce.
Training, qualifications & experience
Practice Established: 1996, (29 years ago).
Psychodynamic Psychoanalytic Psychotherapist and Counsellor
M.A. Psychoanalytic Studies
M.Phil. Psychoanalysis
Post Graduate Diploma in Short-term Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy
Senior Accredited Member: BACP -
British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy
Research into the origins of:
Anorexia, Autism, Empathy, Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), Obsessional Compulsive Disorder (OCD), Marriage and Divorce.
Member organisations
school Registered / Accredited
Being registered/accredited with a professional body means an individual must have achieved a substantial level of training and experience approved by their member organisation.
BACP is one of the UK’s leading professional bodies for counselling and psychotherapy with around 60,000 members. The Association has several different categories of membership, including Student Member, Individual Member, Registered Member MBACP, Registered Accredited Member MBACP (Accred) and Senior Registered Accredited Member MBACP (Snr Acccred). Registered and accredited members are listed on the BACP Register, which shows that they have demonstrated BACP’s recommended standards for training, proficiency and ethical practice. The BACP Register was the first register of psychological therapists to be accredited by the Professional Standards Authority (PSA). Accredited and senior accredited membership are voluntary categories for members who choose to undertake a rigorous application and assessment process to demonstrate additional standards around practice, training and supervision. Individual members will have completed an appropriate counselling or psychotherapy course and started to practise, but they won’t appear on the BACP Register until they've demonstrated that they meet the standards for registration. Student members are still in the process of completing their training. All members are bound by the BACP Ethical Framework and a Professional Conduct Procedure.
Accredited register membership
The Accredited Register Scheme was set up in 2013 by the Department of Health (DoH) as a way to recognise organisations that hold voluntary registers which meet certain standards. These standards are set by the Professional Standards Authority (PSA).
This therapist has indicated that they belong to an Accredited Register.
Areas of counselling I deal with
Other areas of counselling I deal with
Couples Psychodynamic Therapy and Counselling
Topics covered: Abuse, Addiction, Adoption, Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), AIDS, Anger Management, Anorexia, Bulimia, Childhood sexual abuse, Couples, Chronic Fatigue, Critical Mother, Cross-dressing, Depression, Divorce, Domestic violence, Exhibitionism, Father abandonment, Fetishism, Fibromyalgia, Kink, Incest, IBS, Institutionalised sexual abuse, Internet pornography, Lesbian or Gay issues, Loss, Magical thinking, Marriage, Compulsive Masturbation, Mobile addiction, Narcissism, Obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD,) Paedophilia - Internet or Phantasy, Premature Ejaculation, Psychosomatic conversion, Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), Racial discrimination, Rape, S&M, Sexual abuse, Sexual Orientation, Transvestite, Trauma, Twins, Work-related bullying.
Client catchment area: UK, Balham, Battle, Birmingham, Beckenham, Blackfriars, Brighton, Bromley, Canary Wharf, Cardiff, Catford, Clock House, Croydon, Crystal Palace, Downham, Dulwich, East Dulwich, East Finchley, Eden Park, Elephant and Castle, Elmers End, Eltham, Folkstone, Finchley, Forest Hill, Hastings, Hayes, Hither Green, Keston, Lewes, Lewisham, Ladywell, London Bridge, Lower Sydenham, Manchester, New Beckenham, New Cross, Norwich, Norwood, Orpington, Oxford, Purley, Sevenoaks, Sidcup, St Johns, South Norwood, Sydenham, West Dulwich, West Wickham, Waterloo,
N2, SE3, SE4, SE5, SE6, SE9, SE12, SE13, SE14, SE19, SE20, SE21, SE22, SE23, SE25, SE26, SW1, SW2, CR0, CR1, CR4, CR7, BR1, BR3, BR7
Therapies offered
Fees
£50.00 - £60.00
Health Insurance/EAP
Additional information
Psychotherapy sessions are per therapeutic hour of 50 minutes,
Using Face-Time, What'sApp, Zoom, Teams, or telephone.
£50 for individual
£60 for couples
When I work
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Please contact to fix best day and time for Weekly Talking Therapy Sessions.
E: gavinwil@aol.com
M: 07818265356 (Text please)
On-Line via FaceTime, Zoom, TEAMS, Google Meet, What'sApp,
Further information
Specialities:
Adults of Divorced Parents, Divorcing Parents, Childless Couples.
Has your Father or Mother rejected you? Do you experience your Mother as critical?
Anxiety, Panic Attack, Chronic Fatigue, Fibromyalgia.
Attachment, 4 different types of attachment.
Depression,
Post-natal depression
Post-Traumatic-Stress-Syndrome
Trauma
Sexual addiction
Masturbation, compulsive
Internet Pornography addiction.
Obsessional Compulsive Disorder - OCD
Separation Anxiety, Individuation
Homosexuality, Heterosexual, Sexual orientation, Bi-sexual, Lesbian, Questioning, Confused.
Pre-wedding, marriage and post-marriage relationships issues.
Monogamy, Polygamy, Infidelity, Divorce, Incestuous desire.
Couples on-line counselling and psychotherapy, and One-2-One
Couples counselling and psychotherapy. Twins. Vanishing Twins.
Self-Harm, Non-suicidal self injury.
Following a sense of guilt for owning wealth, a wife and mother leaves her husband and her two young children in their beautiful house in order to go and help the poor. The father remarries then dies, leaving the children with an unloving stepmother who throws them out.
If any part of this short story resonates with you, why not book some Talking Therapy sessions to explore aspects of your own anxieties?
