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Paul Cockayne MBACP (Accred)

Wokingham, Berks, RG41
07791 970406 Registered / Accredited
Wokingham, Berks, RG41

About me

My style as a counsellor is flexible and informal. I believe in tailoring my style to your needs as clients, so I do not work to any sort of fixed programme of counselling or with a rigid framework. At our first meeting we will discuss how you would like to work together, what your objectives are and what sort of approach you would like. I normally suggest that we meet weekly, but that is not fixed in stone, we can meet more or less often, generally at my practice in Wokingham.

I work with both individuals and with couples. In my couple work I often find that the key to success in dealing with relationship issues lies in finding the right way to communicate - both within the counselling environment and outside it. Problems may seem insurmountable, deadlocks may seem unbreakable but if we are able to listen to our partners properly and respect their point of view, compromises can suddenly appear as if by magic.

If you'd like to find out more about me, you can visit my website and read my counselling blog at http://paulcockayne.com

To book an appointment, or for more information, you can contact me via email on paulcockayne3@gmail.com or ring me on 07791 970406.

Training, qualifications & experience

I am a Relate-trained counsellor with extensive experience, and have been awarded a Post Graduate Diploma in Couple Counselling. I am an accredited member of the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy MBACP (Accred) and a UKRCP Registered Independent Counsellor. I work to the BACP code of ethics.

Member organisations

Registered / Accredited

Registered / Accredited

Being registered/accredited with a professional body means an individual must have achieved a substantial level of training and experience approved by their member organisation.


British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy

BACP is one of the UK’s largest professional bodies for counselling and psychotherapy. Therapists registered with the Association fall into a number of different membership categories such as Individual Member, Registered Member MBACP and Registered Member MBACP (Accred), each standing for different levels of training and experience. MBACP (Accred) and MBACP (Snr Accred) members have achieved a substantial level of training and experience approved by the Association.

Registered members can be found on the BACP Register, which was the first register to achieve Accredited Voluntary Register status issued by the Professional Standards Authority. Individual Members will have completed an appropriate counselling and/or psychotherapy course and started to practise, but will not appear on the BACP Register until they've progressed to Registered Member MBACP status.

All members are bound by a Code of Ethics & Practice and a Complaints Procedure. Accredited by the Professional Standards Authority.

Accredited register membership

British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy

Accredited Register Scheme

The Accredited Register Scheme was set up in 2013 by the Department of Health (DoH) as a way to recognise organisations that hold voluntary registers which meet certain standards. These standards are set by the Professional Standards Authority (PSA).

This therapist has indicated that they belong to an Accredited Register.

Therapies offered

  • Couples counselling
  • Existential therapy
  • Family/systemic therapy
  • Humanistic therapies
  • Integrative
  • Person-centred therapy
  • Psychoanalytic therapy
  • Psychoanalytical and psychodynamic
  • Psychodynamic therapy
  • Transactional analysis


£60 an hour

Further information

I was educated at Oxford University, where I studied Maths and Philosophy when my social life allowed. I graduated in 1976 with a third class degree, much to my surprise and delight. I then spent a couple of years working as a musician before deciding to get a proper job by joining the booming IT industry. As my interest in computers declined, my interest in people increased, leading me into my current career as a counsellor and trainer.


Type of session

In person
Home visits

Practical details

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Other languages None


Wheelchair user access

Wheelchair-accessible premises should have step-free access for wheelchair users and individuals who are unable to climb stairs. If a counsellor's premises aren't step-free, they may offer alternative services such as telephone/web-based appointments, home visits, or meeting clients in different location, so you can choose the option that suits you best.

You can contact the counsellor to discuss the options available.

Under the Equality Act 2010 service providers have a duty to make reasonable adjustments to ensure that individuals with disabilities can access their service. You can read more about reasonable adjustments to help you to access services on the CAB website.

Wheelchair user access Unspecified


Just as the success of counselling hinges on the therapeutic_relationship between counsellor and client, so, I believe, the success of supervision hinges on the supervisory relationship.

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