About me

I am a Relate qualified, BACP Registered, COSRT Accredited Counsellor & Psychosexual Therapist working with individuals or couples in the Thame, Bicester, Oxford, Aylesbury and High Wycombe areas.

Those seeking counselling may have worries and concerns due to life's pressures or changes, or they may have difficulties coming to terms with events in the past. They may have relationship or sexual issues. Sometimes they may fear that what they are bringing to counselling is shameful or embarrassing.

Between us we can address issues such as low self esteem, depression, stress, panic attacks, anxiety, bereavement, redundancy, sexual orientation and sexual dysfunction.

Individuals or couples learn to improve their relationships in a safe and secure setting - exploring communication or sexual difficulties, the effects of sexual addiction, domestic violence and abuse.

Where relationships have broken down we can try to manage the pain of separation, and provide a secure framework to enable children to cope with the changes.

For more information please see my website, email me, or I am very happy to answer any questions on the telephone.

Training, qualifications & experience

COSRT (College of Sexual & Relationship Therapists) Accredited
BACP (British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy) Certificate of Proficiency
Relate Graduate Diploma in Couples Counselling
Post Graduate Diploma in Psychosexual Therapy
CRUSE trained in bereavement support.
Extensive experience in counselling and psychosexual therapy, working with hundreds of couples and individuals.

Other specialist training

Psychosexual counselling
Lesbian, gay, bisexual & transgender (LGBT) counselling
Gender dysphoria
Paraphilias eg crossdressing, BDSM, kink etc
Sexual addiction: assessment & in the couple relationship
Surviving childhood sexual abuse
Children's needs when couples divorce

As a member of both BACP (British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy) and COSRT(College of Sexual & Relationship Therapists) I am bound by their Codes of Ethics and Principles of Good Practice for Members including confidentiality.

I am registered with the ICO (Information Commissioner's Office), and will hold your personal data securely in line with GDPR.

I hold full professional indemnity and public liability insurance.

I have my own private practice and offer counselling in Tetsworth or Thame.
Tetsworth offers a quiet village location, relaxed and private counselling accommodation and dedicated parking.
Thame Therapy Clinic offers easy access, convenient free town centre parking and comfortable therapy rooms.

I will also offer counselling in the privacy of your own home where circumstances require it - at no extra charge if within 5 miles of Thame. However, counselling in a safe neutral environment is usually preferable.

I believe in helping clients find and develop their own solutions, using an Integrated approach:

Psychodynamic therapy - encouraging you to explore unacknowledged feelings, linking past experiences with how you are now.

Systemic therapy - helping you to understand the dynamics of relationships; that difficulties are not necessarily down to one person, but may be the result of cultural and family background, and the present and past interactions between you.

Person-centred therapy - helping you to understand and validate the way you are feeling, focusing on what is really right for you instead of feeling confused by what you think you ought to be feeling or doing.

Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) - identifying and modifying negative or faulty beliefs and thoughts which are causing unhelpful behaviours.

Psychosexual therapy - using cognitive behavioural therapy to identify the root causes of sexual problems, and to successfully address them, whether you are an individual or in a couple relationship.

Member organisations

Registered / Accredited

Registered / Accredited

Being registered/accredited with a professional body means an individual must have achieved a substantial level of training and experience approved by their member organisation.


British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy

BACP is one of the UK’s largest professional bodies for counselling and psychotherapy. Therapists registered with the Association fall into a number of different membership categories such as Individual Member, Registered Member MBACP and Registered Member MBACP (Accred), each standing for different levels of training and experience. MBACP (Accred) and MBACP (Snr Accred) members have achieved a substantial level of training and experience approved by the Association.

Registered members can be found on the BACP Register, which was the first register to achieve Accredited Voluntary Register status issued by the Professional Standards Authority. Individual Members will have completed an appropriate counselling and/or psychotherapy course and started to practise, but will not appear on the BACP Register until they've progressed to Registered Member MBACP status.

All members are bound by a Code of Ethics & Practice and a Complaints Procedure. Accredited by the Professional Standards Authority.


College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists

COSRT is the UK’s leading membership organisation for therapists specialising in sexual and relationship issues.

All members must abide by their Code of Ethics and the performance of accredited members is regularly monitored.

Accredited register membership

British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy

Accredited Register Scheme

The Accredited Register Scheme was set up in 2013 by the Department of Health (DoH) as a way to recognise organisations that hold voluntary registers which meet certain standards. These standards are set by the Professional Standards Authority (PSA).

This therapist has indicated that they belong to an Accredited Register.

Other areas of counselling I deal with

Psychosexual therapy & counselling
Erectile dysfunction
Premature ejaculation
Loss of desire
Lesbian, gay, bisexual & transgender (LGBT) counselling
Gender dysphoria
Paraphilias eg crossdressing, BDSM, kink etc
Sexual addiction: assessment & in the couple relationship
Surviving childhood sexual abuse
Children's needs when couples divorce
Domestic abuse and violence
Impact of cultural differences
Fertility issues


£70.00 per session

Additional information

For individuals or couples:

£70 for each 60 minute session, in order to establish your needs and ensure you are happy with the way we will work together. Concessions may be offered subject to discussion.

£65 per 60 minute session thereafter. The same charge applies, whether for an individual or couple.

If you are experiencing financial hardship, I am very happy to discuss a suitable arrangement.


I am available for appointments both weekdays and evenings, and on Saturday mornings.

Further information


"Thank you so much for all your help this year! Your listening, support, guidance and gentle encouragement have been invaluable." Ms C. Oxford (Individual counselling)

"Thank you for your wit, wisdom, warmth...and patience." Ms C. Thame (Individual counselling)

"Our sincerest thanks for all your hard work and perseverance over the last few months. We're both elated at the progress we have made, and we couldn't have done it without you." Mr & Mrs T. Oxford (Couple in psychosexual therapy)

Swan Gardens

Thame Therapy Clinic
23 Upper High Street

Type of session

In person

Types of client

Young people
Older adults
Jenny Todd

Jenny Todd