We can't get away from relationships and how we relate to people, either in the workplace, our family, partners, friends or children. Sometimes we can find ourselves in a pattern of behaviour with some people and its very difficult to understand why we relate to some people differently to others.
Sometimes it feels confusing and we feel uncomfortable around certain people. This could make us feel anxious and exhausted after being in their company, or we may feel violated and be left with the feeling that we have 'given away' more information than we wanted to. In some relationships we feel like a child and in others we may feel like a parent.
How we relate to other people can be so important in our relationships. In the end we all want to feel a 'connection' with somebody but sometimes its hard to be 'ourselves' and be completely real and authentic.
Counselling could help you understand how you relate to people in relationships and why problems arise.
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