My well-being tool kit
4 top tips to stay wellHere are my four top therapy doodles to stay well.
Try for 5I picked a hobby I had put off for a while because it felt too overwhelming but I remember enjoying it at the time. Instead of trying to plan in some drawing for an hour - which I always made excuses for, I tried for five. I planned in just five minutes of drawing. This felt very achievable and was such a small amount of time that I knew I could not seriously make an excuse not to do it. [caption id="attachment_15875" align="aligncenter" width="792"] Try for 5 by Tidy Mind Doodles[/caption] Once I got started, I kept going and I ended up enjoying myself. I went to bed feeling more relaxed and it was great that my brain had some wind-down time away from my phone. Try for 5 places the focus on getting you started with a task that you are not feeling motivated to do. If you manage it you will feel a great sense of achievement. If you decide to do it for longer, that is an extra bonus. When we set ourselves goals which are not achievable, we can beat ourselves up and feel worse about ourselves.
It is best to do something small every day than nothing at all.
You are what you thinkWith so many negative automatic thoughts running through our minds, it can be easy to believe that everything we believe is fact. So many people will think negative things about themselves, constantly hearing that voice saying, ‘I am stupid, I am unlikeable, I am not good enough.’ So is it any surprise that we end up feeling rubbish about ourselves? When we feel sad we want to do less, we withdraw and our thoughts can become increasingly more negative. This doodle helped me to realise - and remind me - that if I was feeling low, I need to either change what I am doing or change how I am thinking to break this vicious cycle.
Choose your thoughtsAs part of my regular practice using Try for 5 and You are what you think, I try to make the effort to regulate and monitor the thoughts I have. If we are not careful, it’s easy for our thoughts to run away from us and before we know it, our catastrophising and worst-case scenario can cause us panic and anxiety. Every day choose the thoughts you have - pick how you speak to yourself with care because it has a direct impact on how you feel. This requires monitoring and checking in with your thoughts. You may need to ask yourself, is that thought accurate? Is it helpful to me right now? Is there an alternative way of looking at this situation?
Take a step backI have been referring to this tip a lot recently to help me take a step back and see things with more perspective. It is so easy to get swept up in our own internal chitter-chatter, internal and external pressure and expectations, that we often feel very small and overwhelmed by a situation. This doodle really helped me to see that what may feel like a big deal or the end of the world now, in the grand scheme of things and in the timeline of my life, how much does this situation determine who I am and who I will be? Right now, this moment may feel like the most important thing. Taking a step back gives us perspective, as we see that it may be one of many defining moments in our lives, not the defining moment. These are my four most helpful therapy doodles which help me to keep on track with my well-being, I hope they help you too. For more therapy tips and doodles, you can find me on Instagram, Twitter and on my website, Tidy Mind Doodles.
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