You fight with the most important people in your life because those relationships are worth fighting for; this anonymous quote is perhaps the reason…

Why do couples and family members come to counselling, what issues do they bring and how might these issues have originated? Couples and family memb…

Through my work as a counsellor I hold knowledge of DSM -1V-TR (2000) terminology, however I view humans as individuals not conditions - rejecting pa…

“If sexuality is one dimension of our ability to live passionately in the world then in cutting off our sexual feelings we diminish our overall power…

Why do relationships break down? And if they do is it necessarily a bad thing? Most of us have an idea of what we want from a relationship but is it…

We all know that relationships need work to keep them strong. Yet somehow over time our relationship can drift. Perhaps it’s the natural life cycle…

Arguments between couples are normal. They can be a healthy and constructive way of moving forward. Arguments do not have to descend into all out con…

Fighting is often associated with bullying, violence and abuse. By following my tips about how to have a fair fight, you can experience the absence o…

Anyone who has been in a relationship, romantic or otherwise will know that it is not a static entity. Relationships ebb and flow, sometimes you will…

In our couple relationships, it is very easy to fall into habits of relating that restrict both of us. Over the years, without noticing, you and your…

When two people meet and fall in love they co-create a vessel in which they form their relationship. This unique container exists for the duration of…

Romance is in the air as Valentine’s Day gets closer, when many of us arrange meals, flowers and intimate occasions for our loved one. For most it is…