Stephanie Riddle UKCP
9 Park End Street
I am an experienced, fully qualified psychotherapist, based in central Oxford. My fees are from £35-£50 per session, depending on your financial situation.
There are three questions which I have found are important to many people when they are looking for a new therapist or counsellor. I hope you will find it useful to read about where I stand on these questions:
1. How can psychotherapy help me?
You may be thinking about seeing a therapist as a way of dealing with a specific problem or situation in your life, or you may have a more general feeling that 'something is wrong', without necessarily being able to describe exactly what the problem is. Psychotherapy can be helpful in either of these situations.
I am an integrative psychotherapist, which means that I am trained in more than one form of psychotherapy, and actively use a blend of different therapies in my work. Integrative psychotherapists are interested in uncovering, and working with, the common forces of change across different forms of psychotherapy and counselling. For example, there is considerable research which suggests that the individual relationship between therapist and client is more important to the success of the therapy than the particular 'brand' of therapy being practised.
From an integrative perspective, some of the ways in which psychotherapy can help people are:
- To gain a clearer and more subtle understanding of your own internal world.
- To become more skilful at getting your needs met within relationships, while also taking account of the needs of others.
- To take a more compassionate and open-minded attitude towards yourself and others.
- To be more emotionally resilient.
- To be more comfortable with change and uncertainty.
- To become more skilful at adapting to change.
- Where necessary, to endure suffering, and creatively transform it.
This is not to say that everyone who has therapy will benefit in all of these ways. Psychotherapy is a very complex process, and each person's experience is unique.
2. What will therapy be like?
Many people are interested to know what will happen in therapy, both at a practical level and also what being in therapy will feel like. If you have never seen a counsellor or therapist before, you may have formed some impressions through books, television programmes, family or friends. If you have had some prior experience of counselling or therapy, you may still be wondering what it would be like for you now, at this point in your life, with a new therapist.
The first session in psychotherapy provides an opportunity to begin to get a sense of what it will be like, and to ask any questions you may have. To some extent, it is impossible to know what will happen in advance. However, I can describe to you some of the main aspects of how I work:
- The therapy I offer involves a 50-minute session at a regular time each week. This would be your time to explore whatever it is which is causing you unhappiness or difficulty.
- My role is, first of all, to understand you from your own perspective, to hear what you are thinking and feeling. For some people, the experience of being listened to and understood can, in itself, have quite a powerful impact.
- I will also listen out for themes in your experience and life story which you may not be fully aware of yourself. I will try to support you to become more aware of how you perceive and relate to the world around you. For some people, developing insight and self-knowledge is the aspect of therapy that they most value, and it can be helpful in making choices which are more likely to lead to fulfilment in future,
- If you are facing difficult choices or wanting to make changes to your way of life, I will support you in thinking through the consequences of different options, and understanding what you most want and need. I can also work with you on aspects of daily living, such as strategies for managing anger, self-care, self-assertion, and setting boundaries in relationships.
3. How long will it take?
The length of therapy varies hugely between individuals, and can be anything from a few sessions to a few months or even years, depending on your needs and the nature of the difficulties you are bringing. Normally I would suggest an initial set of four sessions, with the length of further therapy to be decided between us at the fourth session, once we have had some opportunity to explore the nature of the difficulties you are bringing. Some people are comfortable with a short, focused period of therapy. For others, a longer period of therapy feels more secure and supportive. If you are unsure, this is something we can discuss and work out together.
Training, qualifications & experience
Training and qualifications
I am an experienced, fully qualified psychotherapist and accredited member of the United Kingdom Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP).
I hold a postgraduate degree (MSc) in Integrative Psychotherapy, which I trained for at the Metanoia Institute in London (www.metanoia.ac.uk). This is a long-term, intensive training, accredited by the UK Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP) and the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP), and validated by Middlesex University. I am also trained in telephone counselling work.
I have 8 years' experience as a psychotherapist, working across the private sector, charity sector, and university sector. I have also volunteered as a listener in psychiatric settings. I have worked with people from many different walks of life, different social and economic backgrounds, and different age groups.
I have experience of working with a wide range of emotional and psychological issues including, relationship problems, depression, anxiety, loneliness, low self-esteem, life transitions (e.g. leaving home, emigrating, becoming a parent, becoming disabled), family breakdown, abuse and neglect in childhood, identity issues and sexuality. In addition, I specialise in the following areas:
Areas of specialism
ADHD - I am working with the charity ADHD Oxfordshire www.adhdoxfordshire.co.uk to improve provision of psychotherapy and counselling services to adults with ADHD, and family members of people with ADHD.
Academic and Study Related Issues - I have particular experience of working with university students and the problems that are common among students including work blocks, perfectionism, performance anxiety, social anxiety in groups (e.g. seminars), adjustment to the university environment, and work and career choices
Experiences of discrimination and prejudice - especially in relation to disability, sexual orientation, gender, and race/ethnicity.
Telephone Counselling and Psychotherapy - Although the majority of my work is face-to-face, I do also offer a telephone service for those who prefer it. This may suit you if:
- You are short of time - with telephone counselling and psychotherapy, there is no travel time involved in attending sessions, which can make it easier to fit around your other commitments.
- You travel frequently or are planning to move home
- You are disabled, injured or unwell
- You experience emotional or psychological barriers to leaving the house or travelling
- You need to speak about issues which you find very painful, embarrassing, frightening or shameful. For some people, the 'visual privacy' of the telephone helps them to speak more freely.
For details of telephone counselling services, please see my website www.stephriddletherapy.co.uk
Accredited register membership
Areas of counselling I deal with
- Affairs and betrayals
- Anorexia nervosa
- Antisocial personality disorder
- Avoidant personality disorder
- Binge-eating disorder
- Body dysmorphic disorder
- Borderline personality disorder
- Bulimia nervosa
- Carer support
- Child related issues
- Dependent personality disorder
- Domestic violence
- Eating disorders
- Emotional abuse
- Family issues
- Gender dysphoria
- Generalised anxiety disorder
- Histrionic personality disorder
- Low self-confidence
- Low self-esteem
- Narcissistic personality disorder
- Obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD)
- Obsessive-compulsive personality disorder
- Panic disorder
- Paranoid personality disorder
- Passive aggressive behaviour
- Personality disorders
Other areas of counselling I deal with
Academic and Study Issues
Discrimination and Prejudice
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Face-to-face counselling and psychotherapy
My fee is on a sliding scale from £35-£50 per session, depending on your financial situation. No proof is required - I will ask you to tell me what you can afford. Payment for face-to-face sessions is by cash or cheque at the end of each session. I will not ask you to pay in advance for sessions or to financially commit to a particular length of therapy.
Telephone counselling and psychotherapy
My fee is £35 for the first session of telephone counselling, and between £35 and £50 for all subsequent sessions, depending on what you can afford. Payment for telephone sessions is by online bank transfer in advance of each session. You do not pay for the telephone call itself. I will call you for our telephone counselling sessions at the time we have agreed, unless you specifically state that you would prefer to call me instead.
Booking an Appointment
If you would like to book an appointment, please email me at email@example.com, with a few sentences telling me about the problem or problems you would like help with, or call me on 07525 648844. I will usually reply to you within 24 hours. If I am available to work with you, I will usually offer you an appointment within the next 10 days.
Length of therapy
The therapy I offer involves a 50-minute session at a regular time each week. The length of therapy is agreed on an individual basis, depending on the needs of the client and what they want from the therapy. Normally I would suggest an initial set of four sessions to explore the issues that you are bringing, with the length of therapy to be decided between us at the fourth session.
What happens in a first session?
In our first session of therapy there will be three areas of focus. Firstly, I will begin to explore with you your reasons for seeking therapy at this time. Secondly, I will ask you for some background information about yourself, for example your family, your health, and whether you have had counselling or therapy before. Thirdly, you will have the opportunity to ask me any questions you may have about the therapy and to express any hopes or fears about what the therapy will be like.
Location and Accessibility
My consulting room is based at 9 Park End Street, OX1 1HH, within a short walk of Oxford city centre and Oxford train station. I am a member of Oxford Psychotherapy and Counselling, a group of registered psychotherapists and counsellors working from 9 Park End Street.
Psychotherapy rooms at 9 Park End Street
If you are disabled, please email me details of your access requirements when you make contact, for example the width of your wheelchair if you use one, and I will check in advance whether the building is suited to your needs.
Maps & Directions
Type of session
|Face to face counselling:||Yes|
Types of client
|Employee Assistance Programme|