Mike Gray

Mike Gray

Near Waterloo


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Near Waterloo


About me

I offer couples counselling in central London.

It’s painful when your relationship isn't working. Perhaps you are wondering whether to work at it, or just leave? The person who should be the source of your support has become the source of your difficulty. Perhaps you are wondering whether it’s partly you?

I specialise in couple problems, and I can help you to resolve them. I work with couples who are having relationship difficulties such as:

  • arguments
  • an affair or infidelity
  • disagreements over parenting, over money, over in-laws...
  • one partner isn't sure they want to stay
  • boundaries - "my partner flirts with other people" (maybe on Facebook or social media).

Maybe you are having arguments over tiny things: the dishwasher, closing the drawer, the remote control. That's not at all unusual. Or maybe it's big stuff: trust, parenting, in-laws. Trying to talk about these things has become too difficult - it's too repetitive, or blows up out of control, or your partner just refuses to engage. These are the problems I see every day.

I also often work with individuals on relationship issues - either to help you understand a relationship that has ended - or to work on your current relationship if your partner won't come along.

Training, qualifications & experience

I am an individual member of BACP and am bound by their code of ethical conduct. This includes requirements for proper training, professional supervision, ongoing update training, and insurance.

I am also a member of RELATE's register of professional couple counsellors. I trained with RELATE, as well as with the Tavistock Centre for Couple Relationships.

Member organisations


Other areas of counselling I deal with

  • Marriage issues
  • Infidelity
  • Arguments


Please see my own website for current details of availability and fees.

Maps & Directions

London, SE1

Type of session

Online counselling: No
Telephone counselling: No
Face to face counselling: Yes

Practical details

Sign language: No
Other languages: None


I have availability on THURSDAY MORNINGS from August 17th 2017.

Types of client

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