Evelyn Bentley Registered Member BACP Counsellor and Coach

Evelyn Bentley           Registered Member BACP       Counsellor and Coach

Tidworth
Hampshire
SP9

The Psychology Clinic
111 West Street
Farnham
Surrey
GU9 7HH

01980 849062 / 07766 522258

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Tidworth
Hampshire
SP9

The Psychology Clinic
111 West Street
Farnham
Surrey
GU9 7HH

01980 849062 / 07766 522258

About me

I am an experienced, registered therapeutic Counsellor and Coach working on the telephone, online and in person near Tidworth on the Hampshire / Wiltshire border and in Farnham, Surrey helping people to make changes and cope with life's challenges.

Most of us only start looking for help and support when life has become difficult. We are not sure how to change or what to change but we know that something needs to change. I'm here to help. Together we work out how you can live the life you want.

I see people with a wide range of issues and have successfully treated them by integrating counselling and coaching styles incorporating CBT and NLP into my approach. We can explore together during your initial session what is best for you.

After a telephone consultation (no charge) we would have a 90 minute session followed by 3 or 5 sessions of an hour each. After this you can choose to continue having sessions on an ad hoc basis or to commit to a further 3 or 5 sessions.

If you prefer we can have a one-off in-depth problem solving double session.


I help people when they are experiencing:

Anxiety,

Depression,

Grief,

Eating Disorders,

or Relationship issues.

Depression and Anxiety can be experienced in very different ways from feeling sad, feeling tired all the time to panic attacks, generalised anxiety disorder and PTSD. As well as talking through how you are feeling we can look at positive actions you can take to start making the changes so that you can feel how you would like to again.

I have a great deal of experience helping patients, their careers and their families, cope with diagnosis, treatment and recovery from illness. I have worked in a Cancer ward and work on an award winning Diabetes management team. Having support and someone to talk to outside of friends and family at times of change, loss and grief can be so helpful.

I successfully treat many people who struggle with eating disorders and their relationship with food. I give regular talks on The Psychology of Eating. Looking at the emotions that might be behind eating patterns is an extremely effective way to change those patterns in the long term and is vital to control what, why and when you eat.

Coping with betrayal and affairs in relationships from suspicion and discovery to separation and divorce can trigger many extremely difficult feelings and situations that talking through with someone who will listen without judgement can be such a relief.

I have coached many teenagers and adults to overcome bullying in school, in the workplace or in their home. This often involves looking at ways to respond differently, how to prioritise and express your own needs and building self-esteem. Once this pattern is changed it positively effects your relationships for the rest of your life.

Looking at team issues at work, with friends or in sport is another area that I help people with. Understanding other people, their behaviours and how you react to them can be revealing and enlightening and fundamental to how you perform.


I also specialise in helping people who are feeling:

Over-whelmed

Over-stressed

Out of control

Working together, looking at what is going on and why to find a way forwards that works for you.


I also help if you would like to:

Cope with changes in your life

Explore your Personal growth and development

Improve your Social skills

Change your patterns in relationships - family, friends, colleagues, teams, partners, people in authority

Make big decisions in your life

Make and achieve your goals and resolutions


Together we develop your self-awareness by understanding your patterns of thought, patterns in relationships, and how you experience emotions.

Improving your self-awareness can inform the choices you make so that you can start living the life you want.

Come and share what has brought you to therapy to see if working with me feels comfortable.

I welcome enquiries by email, telephone or text.

Near Tidworth I am easily accessible from Andover, Salisbury, Stockbridge, Amesbury and Marlborough with plenty of parking.

In Stockbridge I work with a team of therapists at a practice dedicated to the all round health of all their clients.

My rooms in Farnham are in the centre of town close to the train station and bus routes from Alton and Guildford with long term parking very nearby.

I am am also available on Skype, FaceTime and WhatsApp video call. Or on the telephone.

Please feel free to contact me to talk through what brings you to search for support and to explore how we could work together so that you can start living your life exactly how you would like to.

A lot can be achieved in either a single session or a few sessions in short term focused therapy or we can work at more depth over a longer period of time looking at underlying issues if you prefer.


Tel: 0776652258   Email: evelynfbentley@gmail.com

Training, qualifications & experience

I have a Degree in Psychology

I hold an Advanced Diploma in Humanistic Therapeutic Counselling

I also have a Diploma in Life Coaching specialising in Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT) and Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP).

I am a registered member of the BACP (the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy).

Additionally I am a member of both the Coaching Division and the Children and Young People Division of the BACP.

I have additional training in Mindfulness and in Counselling Children and Young People.

I also have experience counselling for the NHS and in Youth Counselling.

I have many years experience working with cancer patients, their families and staff at The Royal Surrey County Hospital attached to St Luke's Ward.

I practice as part of the Wellbeing team at the University of Surrey.

I am also a counsellor and coach at Grayshott Spa as part of their Eating Regime, Diabetes Management Programme and their Rehabilitation programme.

Member organisations

BACP

Accredited register membership

Other areas of counselling I deal with

Coping with life changes

Personal growth and development

Social skills

Changing patterns in relationships

Making life decisions

Making goals

Fees

An initial 15 minute consultation (no charge)

For a 90 minute session:

£75

£60 for under 18s

£105 for a couple

For a 50 minute session:

£50

£40 for under 18s

£70 for a couples session.


I offer reduced rates for students.

Appointments can can be face to face, by telephone or on Skype, FaceTime or WhatsApp video call.

I also offer appointments in your place of work or in your home.

Please get in touch for more information.

Further information

Session time and duration:

Sessions are 50 minutes long, normally held on a weekly basis. The number of sessions people come for varies greatly.

A lot can be achieved in either a single session or a few sessions in short term focused therapy or we can work at more depth over a longer period of time that suits you.


Maps & Directions

Tidworth, SP9
Farnham, GU9 7HH

Type of session

Online counselling: Yes
Telephone counselling: Yes
Face to face counselling: Yes

Practical details

Sign language: No
Other languages: None

Availability

Daytime appointments in Farnham and Tidworth: Monday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday Evening appointments available in Tidworth: Monday, Wednesday, Friday

Types of client

Young people
Adults
Older adults
Couples
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