Tessa Gunn UKCP Registered Gestalt Psychotherapist and Supervisor
Welwyn Garden City
Feeling stuck and frustrated? Repeating familiar patterns which lead to dissatisfaction or hurt? In the midst of a great black void with no sense of the way out nor any energy to do so? Or maybe you're generally content but something is niggling at you which you want to explore?
Whatever your situation, as a Gestalt therapist, I will work holistically and compassionately with you (and with your partner if you are coming for couples counselling) to explore any difficult or painful issues you may be facing. I will also work with you to raise your awareness of yourself and your thoughts, feelings and embodied sensations so that you can make sense of what is going on for you and take appropriate action.
How I work ...
Gestalt therapy is an existential/humanistic therapy which uses the relationship between me (the therapist) and you (the client) as it is unfolding 'right here, right now' to guide the direction of the work. This means, unlike some other kinds of counselling which 'talk about' things without looking at 'how' these patterns keep happening in the present, I will take time gently exploring with you how you act right now and how your past reveals itself through these actions. Through these explorations, and through experimenting with me to see how you feel when you change one small thing, I can help you become more fully aware of yourself which, in turn, will give you greater self-acceptance, more awareness of what you are no longer prepared to tolerate and some options for moving forwards. This present based, experimental way of working is excellent for unearthing stuck patterns, many of which will have been learned and practiced over many years and have become habitual.
Whilst, in the main, the two of us will be engaged in some kind of conversation, I also will, where appropriate, work creatively with you in a way that suits your own individual requirements and preferences. There are endless ways of doing this and possibilities could include exploring your dreams; doing artwork together; role playing a situation or conflict facing you; exploring your physical posture or breathing pattern or emotions as a route to deepening your understanding of what is going on in your current life etc. etc. These methods are often very effective and powerful ways of accessing and harnessing half formed thoughts, ideas, feelings etc. and can make something clear that previously was hidden.
I generally work on a long term basis and ensure that whatever the length of our contract, we undertake regular reviews. This helps keep the work focused and allows for any concerns to be raised. Equally, when the time comes for our work together to end, I will ensure sufficient time is allowed to review our work and to look at alternate forms of support going forwards, if appropriate.
Counselling sessions last for 50 minutes and are normally held once per week (excluding holiday periods). Occasionally, I will see people twice a week or for longer sessions. Couples counselling sessions need longer to be most effective and I normally offer 90 minutes sessions for these. Throughout our work together, everything that is said will be treated with the greatest respect and confidence and you will be able to share your thoughts, concerns and feelings safely, without fear of retribution.
I abide by the code of ethics of Metanoia Insititute, UKCP and BACP.
Area of Expertise and Interest ...
My areas of expertise and interest include:
- personal development and growth, including the development of new strategies for new/old problems;
- raising personal awareness in general (including awareness of how you use your thoughts, feelings and body to help or hinder you getting what you need and awareness of the choices you are making);
- raising self-esteem and confidence - restoring and developing your self acceptance;
- relationships - how to recognise what you want from a relationship - how you go about getting this, what you may do which is less useful to you, whether this is the right relationship for you etc.;
- working with depression; anxiety; bereavement, loss and letting go;
- working with issues of diversity and/or of being in a minority;
- working with issues of parenthood, including post-natal depression, setting boundaries, self/other balance, one-parent families;
- working with relationship conflicts - e.g. extra-marital affairs, betrayal, divorce or family breakdown;
- working with trauma - learning how to live with the residues of single event trauma or multiple event trauma over time, including accidents and/or sexual, emotional, physical abuse and/or child neglect/cruelty as well as developing new skills and coping strategies
- working with other trainee and qualified therapists - either as their therapist or supervisor.
In addition, I have had a life-long interest in well being, nutrition, fitness, physical and mental health, (and on the flipside, shame and trauma), the latest research and thinking from which I integrate into my work as appropriate. This might mean we explore wider aspects of your current health, lifestyle and support network to see if there are other areas which are undermining your wellbeing and satisfaction in life.
Training, qualifications & experience
I hold a Masters degree in Gestalt Psychotherapy from Metanoia Institute - one of the leading psychotherapy training institutes in Europe - and am fully accredited with UKCP. I also hold an M.B.A. (Master of Business Administration) from Cranfield School of Management (Cranfield University, 1992) and a BA (Hons.) in Politics and Industrial Relations (Lancaster University, 1984). I am currently a primary tutor on the Masters programme at Metanoia, teaching Gestalt psychotherapy to post grad students and a supervisor to the Albany Centre/Mosaic Counselling.
I have undertaken many courses and workshops as part of my ongoing professional development. The courses are too numerous to mention but include: addictions; art therapy; attachment theory; brief therapy; bodywork; body and shame; creative and non-verbal approaches to psychotherapy; creative Gestalt experimentation; dissociative disorders, dreamwork; eating disorders; ego, attachment and anger; existential psychotherapy; infant/child developmental movements and their relationship to adult relating patterns; play therapy; post-traumatic stress disorder; the therapist as relational artist; working with clients who hear voices; working with survivors of sexual and domestic abuse etc.
The Masters course I have undertaken also included in-depth explorations of many additional issues such as: working with anxiety and depression; sex, sexuality and gender; personality disorders; ethics; diagnosis; findings from neuroscience; comparisons with other models of therapy - e.g. CBT, self-psychology; couples counselling etc. Naturally, it also focused in depth on all the Gestalt and existential therapeutic models and theories, such as awareness, bodywork, contact, dialogue, experimentation, phenomenology etc.
Being a primary tutor and supervisor myself means I keep abreast of the latest research and thinking in the therapy field and the most effective means of translating this into useful learning.
Overall my work experience since graduating from the University of Lancaster in 1984 has been in general management (4 years) management consultancy (12 years) and counselling and therapy (14 years to date) and now, training/teaching as well. In particular, I have worked as a counsellor at a women's centre for several years and run my own private practice for men and women from the age of 16 upwards since 2005. (I have also worked part-time for a period with service-users in an acute psychiatric ward where I worked with individuals suffering from acute and manic depression, as well as from schizophrenia and borderline/emotionally unstable personality disorder.) I have also spent a considerable time travelling and have experience of African, Asian and South American communities and cultures, including those of ethnic or religious minorities. I am also a mother and experience at first hand the daily challenges this can bring.
The common theme running throughout my career and life choices has been personal development and change: what helps support change; what hinders change; how can individuals (as well as teams and organisations) maximise their potential; how do people block themselves or allow themselves to stagnate; how does the environment, or culture, contribute to the individual's situation; what might the journey to a brighter, more content, future look like and where is that journey starting from.
It was my deep interest in what make individual change successful that led to my decision in 2001 to focus on therapeutic work with individuals and groups rather than exclusively on organisation strategy and transformation. Nevertheless, my work in management and consultancy has given me invaluable expertise in understanding complex systems and cultures, observing and mapping processes, transferring skills, knowledge and knowhow to others, knowing where to start from to effect change and how to respond as change unfold, as well as the mentoring and coaching of teams and individuals. This experience is in my back pocket, so to speak, and I can draw from it as appropriate.
Accredited register membership
Areas of counselling I deal with
- Affairs and betrayals
- Anger management
- Avoidant personality disorder
- Binge-eating disorder
- Bipolar disorder/Manic depression
- Borderline personality disorder
- Bulimia nervosa
- Carer support
- Child related issues
- Chronic fatigue syndrome/ME
- Dependent personality disorder
- Domestic violence
- Eating disorders
- Emotional abuse
- Family issues
- Generalised anxiety disorder
- Histrionic personality disorder
- Low self-confidence
- Low self-esteem
- Narcissistic personality disorder
- Obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD)
- Obsessive-compulsive personality disorder
- Passive aggressive behaviour
Other areas of counselling I deal with
Parenting and/or Carer issues
Coaching and mentoring
Career choices and management
My current fees are £60 per session for therapy or supervision. (Lower fees can sometimes be negotiated for students or individuals on low incomes.) Fees for couples are £100 for an hour and a half's sesson. Fees for group counselling, group process, or organisational consulting work, will be by arrangement following an initial assessment of needs and desired outcomes. Unless arranged otherwise, fees are always payable by cash, cheque or bank transfer prior to, or at, the beginning of the session.
If you have any questions, please feel free to contact me. Equally, if you are unsure whether to proceed, how about trying a one-off session with me and seeing how you feel? This gives you the opportunity to try me and Gestalt therapy out without any further obligation.
About Gestalt ...
Gestalt is a German word and has no exact translation to English - but is most commonly associated with the idea of wholeness and how one configures and makes meaning of the world (what one perceives/doesn't perceive). Gestalt therapy is also connected with the idea of cycles of creation and destruction and the idea that if something feels unfinished, humans will seek closure by searching out experiences that conjure up similar feelings to the ones experienced as unfinished and will try to ensure a better outcome than the one originally experienced. (You may have heard of the phrase 'unfinished business'.) The observation is that people will repeat actions and behaviour over and over trying to find a way to resolve unfinished situations - the tragedy is that this often involves repeating the non-useful behaviours and getting the same old unsatisfactory results. This is one of the reasons why many people make bad relationship choices over and over again in their life as they continue to choose partners whose relationship style feels familiar yet contributes to the individual getting fixed in a particular style of relating (e.g. 'victim'; 'martyr'; 'parent'; 'child' etc.) or why individuals perceive themselves as unworthy or not good enough even when others around them see them as capable, resourceful, good people.
Gestalt therapy was initially conceived in the 1940s and 50s and has, at its roots, elements of Gestalt psychology, field theory, body structure, the dialogic method, experimentation, existentialism, phenomenology, Tao/ Buddhism/Eastern religions, including mindful and meditative practice, American pragmatism and action learning. At its inception, Gestalt therapy was seen as quite revolutionary - reflecting a wider societal wish not to be led into wars or power struggless by politicians or other leaders against our will. While this desire to stand up for ourselves and to live authentically is still there, Gestalt has evolved to prioritise the healing qualities of the client:therapist relationship itself alongside its quest for meaningful and authentic living. Overall, Gestalt therapy is very much a creative, interactive, here and now, process where the therapist, rather than being a blank screen, will respond authentically to the client with the aim of giving useful, compassionate and supportive feedback and perspectives. In recent years, the findings from neuroscience, infant development, awareness, compassion, mindfulness, stress and trauma research are backing up the theory and methods which gestalt therapists have used for years.
If you have any questions about Gestalt or existential/humanistic therapy, or how I work, please feel free to contact me by e-mail, or phone, as above.
Maps & Directions
Type of session
|Face to face counselling:||Yes|
Right now I have no availability except for one-off emergency sessions. I will update my profile as my situation changes.
Types of client
|Employee Assistance Programme|