Gill de Sylva
In life we are often presented with situations that are stressful, sometimes overwhelming and difficult to cope with.
Counselling provides a safe, non judgemental space, which is your time, to think through and explore issues that are concerning you.
I work humanistically which means I feel that the warm trusting relationship that develops between client and counsellor is vital to exploring difficulties. I believe that through talking and with empathic support all clients have the ability within to resolve their own problems and issues.
My integrative training allows me to draw on differing theories and approaches to counselling which means that I am able to tailor my counselling to needs as each client is unique and individual.
Initially we will explore together the aims or goals for the issues that bring you to counselling. I always believe that it is important that the client leads the process of counselling.
I am happy for you to call for an informal chat or email, to find out if it feels right. It is important that you feel comfortable with a counsellor and that we can develop a good working relationship. You may wish to talk to several counsellors to ensure that you find the right person for you. I will be happy to hear from you for an intial chat.
Training, qualifications & experience
I have had extensive experience of working with young people and children throughout my professional life. Certificate of Counselling Young People and Children, 2009.
I valued the opportunity to learn to use creative arts in counselling feeling that this can be particularly useful when talking becomes difficult. Certificate in Creative Arts in Counselling, 2009,
Integrative Diploma Therapeutic Counselling, 2008, learning to integrate differing counselling approaches.
I have good experience in working with complicated grief issues. Peace Hospice Bereavement Training, 2007,
Nine years experience of counselling people who have experienced abuse during their life. Rape crisis Federation 1999
An interest in working with people who experience difficulties and have special needs Advanced Dip Education Children with Special Needs 1994
I worked in schools between 2010 and 2016 using play therapy skills and resources with pupils with emotional needs.
I was a volunteer counsellor for Herts Mind Network for 5 years which included training for IAPT Counselling for Depression. I then worked at a GP surgery for several years, also seeing nhs clients at my private practice.
Areas of counselling I deal with
- Anger management
- Bipolar disorder/Manic depression
- Child related issues
- Chronic fatigue syndrome/ME
- Domestic violence
- Eating disorders
- Emotional abuse
- Gender dysphoria
- Hearing voices
- Low self-confidence
- Low self-esteem
- Obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD)
- Passive aggressive behaviour
- Personality disorders
Other areas of counselling I deal with
I am also interested in helping adolescents and adults to increase their own self awareness and to help develop their personal identity.
I charge £40 - £50 for each session
I can work short term or long term according to your counselling needs. I see adults, young people and children and elderly individuals.
I cannot offer disabled access but could make home visits if steps are difficult.
I work to the BACP ethical framework which provides a set of principles and values for counsellors. This ensures that the counsellorand client relationship is always respectful and professional.
Anything explored and discussed in the counselling room is confidential, within the constraints of legal requirements, which will be explained in a first session.
I take my case load to a supervisor, which is a professional requirement, who will ensure my ethical and professional working but confidentiality is always maintained.
Maps & Directions
Type of session
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Types of client
Supervision & training
I am a fully certified supervisor; trained for both individual or small group supervision.View supervision profile