Michael Alexander, Dip.Couns., BSc, MBACP

Michael Alexander, Dip.Couns., BSc, MBACP

West Yorkshire

Crossgates Therapy Centre
The Old Manse
13 Austhorpe Road
West Yorkshire
LS15 8BA

07533069025 / 01132266677

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West Yorkshire

Crossgates Therapy Centre
The Old Manse
13 Austhorpe Road
West Yorkshire
LS15 8BA

07533069025 / 01132266677

About me

Welcome to my Counselling Directory Profile;

Hello , I am an integrative counsellor and I work with individuals, including teenage children as well as couples with relationship issues. Integrative means I do not have only one way of working. My belief is that you, the client, determine the approach.

At times we can feel there are no choices left to us;at least give talking therapy a chance when you feel like this.There are always choices for us, it may not seem like there are but I can help to shine a light on where those choices are.

Our mental health is so important perhaps more than what we believe. While keeping fit physically is often raised as something we must do, however, to ignore how we feel and what we keep inside, whether anger, frustration or sadness may adversely affect our mental health.

Anxiety can wear us down worrying about all those 'what if' rhetorical questions we ask ourselves. Depression and anxiety sometimes occur together causing someone great psychological pain.
I can work with you on these, and other issues to shine a light on the reasons for them and help you through the process.

Anger is an emotion that may have damaging effects on you and your relationship. We can work together to understand why it happens so much and hopefully reach a point where you respond to events rather than react.

How do we respond to events in our childhood or adult life that have left a shadow that often comes back to us? I can help you work through these traumatic memories and the pain they still cause.

It may be anxiety, depression, loss of someone you love, low confidence and low self-esteem that has brought you to my site.

Another reason is about a relationship that may have been difficult or has reached a point where you need to talk through your wants and needs, because sometimes we lose the way about what we want and need, indeed we change over time. Working together we can find a way to resolve your difficulties.

.Joyce Vissell made such a meaningful statement when she said “An unresolved issue will be like a cancer with the potential to spread into other areas of your relationship, eroding the joy, lightness, love and beauty.”

Shannon L Alder writes, “Before you can live a part of you has to die. You have to let go of what could have been, how you should have acted and what you wish you would have said differently. You have to accept that you can’t change the past experiences, opinions of others at that moment in time or outcomes from their choices or yours. Counselling offers you that place to reflect and change and I can help you along this journey.

How I work

What is said in the counselling room is confidential and remains in a sense within the room. I have regular supervision but I do not divulge identities. The supervision process allows a supervisor to explore and often suggest useful ideas and techniques.

Yes, counselling is 'talking therapy' but it is carried out with great attention to you, the client, where you will not be judged in any way, where you will be listened to and where light may be shed on your issue.

I complement Talking Therapy with Thought Field Therapy (TFT) for issues such as anxiety. Like acupuncture, this technique utilises the meridian pathways in the body, unlike acupuncture, it does not involve intrusive needles, rather tapping at certain points on the body.

My Experience and Qualifications

2002 Work Place Counselling Training for Call Center staff

2002 Work Place Counsellor Qualification

2003 Higher Education Certificate in Counselling Skills

2004 Certificate in Counselling Skills

2007 Diploma in Counselling

2008 BSc Therapeutic Counselling

2010 Diploma in Schema Therapy

2011 Couple Counselling Course

2012 NLP Practitioner

2014 TFT Certificate ( Thought Field Therapy)

My practice is based in Crossgates at a therapy centre, so you are only a car, bus or train ride away.

Your first session will cost £20

How quickly can I see you for our first Free meeting?

I will contact you once I receive your enquiry and I normally see clients within a short time from our initial conversation.

Training, qualifications & experience

Training and
Experience; I am a BACP Accredited Registered Counsellor and psychotherapist,  the BACP has established the first psychological therapists' register to be accredited under a new scheme set up by the Department of Health and administered by an independent body, accountable to Parliament.



NLP Practitioner/ Hypnosis Practitioner

NLP Time Line Therapy™ Practitioner

Diploma in Schema Therapy

Masters Level CBT module

BSc Therapeutic Counselling

Diploma in Counselling

Continuing Professional Development;

I am a Thought Field Therapy practitioner (2014)

I qualified to certified practitioner level in NLP in September 2012.

I am qualified to practice Thought Field Therapy (2014)

Member organisations


Other areas of counselling I deal with

Thought Field Therapy Practitioner

Codependency and love addiction.

Childhood issues that you adapted to then, but now in adulthood you find difficult.

Love and its meaning in relationships.

Our unique models of reality and how we all have a different version. These differences may cause you difficulty in your relationships.


Our first session is free this allows you the space to see if you feel comfortable working with me.

For counselling sessions that are normally 60 minutes my fee is £37.50 for individuals and couples.

This fee is adjustable if you have economic difficulties and that is by negotiation.

If you are a counselling student or a student of another discipline I offer a significant discount on my fees, for example £25 per session.

Further information

The counselling accommodation at the Therapy Centre consists of a dedicated, secure, confidential room. The contact telephone number is 01132266677 for reception, my mobile telephone number is 07533069025.

The centre has a reception and waiting area. It is a warm and friendly atmosphere.
Parking is available at both front and rear of the building.

My email address is malex4466@yahoo.co.uk

My website email address is mikea67@aspirecounsellingcrossgates.com

I have an alternative email address on mike.alexander7376@gmail.com

Maps & Directions

Leeds, LS15
Leeds, LS15 8BA

Type of session

Online counselling: Yes
Telephone counselling: Yes
Face to face counselling: Yes

Practical details

Sign language: Unspecified
Other languages: None


Weekdays and Saturday pm

Types of client

Young people
Older adults
Employee Assistance Programme
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