Denise Pickup Bacp (Accred.) Couples Counsellor Psychotherapist

7 Beaumont Fee
Lincoln
Lincolnshire
LN1 1UH
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222 Great Portland St
London
W1W 5QP
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Denise Pickup
01522 518689 / 07985941056

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Is your relationship failing?   Or are you wishing to explore individual issues?  A safe place for exploration, with realistic support 12 years' experience and a wide portfolio of skills, may help you on your journey. All work is tailored to your needs.

Are you contemplating divorce or separation or just feeling that things might be better?
  Relationship problems can often be resolved and long-established patterns can be addressed with appropriate support and relevant skills. Affairs, Betrayals, Conflict, Stress, Sex and Communication Problems all affect our intimate relationships.  A relationship crisis need not mean the end of being together. It can, with appropriate help, open up new ways of understanding and a more realistic way of being together. Deal safely with anger and loss and learn better ways to be together. Anger and Bullying can often be tackled; with partners, friends, relatives and colleagues.  Understanding destructive patterns can permit healthier ones to emerge.

Would you prefer to explore a personal issue alone? Whether you are struggling with low self-esteem, loss or other problems you can feel safe to explore sensitive issues with a supportive therapist in a confidential setting. 

Considering Separation or Divorce?
Separation Work can offer closure and resolution where there is no way forward, to offer the best chance to move on to a more positive life.  Divorce may or may not be the best option - why not explore with professional help to feel confident you are making the best choice?  Is the underlying issue one which will emerge in another relationship?  When you leave your partner will you leave the pain behind?  Thinking, exploring and understanding can be worthwhile. Assessments for Domestic Violence, Reconciliations, Private Referrals and Treatment Plans. Reports for Solicitors and Insurance Companies.

Training, Qualifications & Experience

Denise Pickup MA Bacp (accredited) is BUPA recognised.  She has 12 years' experience of counselling couples and individuals. She is an 'expert' on counselling for 'supernanny.co.uk' and writes a column for their website and also writes and edits "Types of Distress" for The Counselling Directory. She has supplied counselling for employers and public funded bodies for many years.

She is Relate-trained and certificated with further training including MA and Diplomas at The Tavistock London (TCCR). As an accredited BACP member she operates within their guidelines to offer a safe place to explore. She is registered with UKRCP.
MA: Attachment and Psychoanalysis in Couple Relationship (Tavistock TCCR 2011)
Postgraduate Diplomas: Attachment and Psychoanalysis in Couple Relationships (Tavistock TCCR) Psychoanalytic Study of the Couple Relationship (Tavistock TCCR) CBT. Certificates: Marital and Couple Counselling (Relate); Counselling Skills; Counselling Theory.
Post Graduate Training: TA, Short-term Solution Focused Couple Counselling, Bereavement, Mental Illness (Depression and Anxiety), Domestic Violence, Loss of Desire, Abuse, Prisoners & Partners, Parenting.

Areas of counselling I deal with

Other areas of counselling I deal with

Regular workshops for couples or groups.
Business workshops offered for individuals or groups.
CONFLICT: like it and be happier.
Relationship MOT.
BULLY for Me.
And BABY makes Three.
Sink the SULK.
JEALOUSY - tame the green-eyed monster

Therapies Offered

Fees

Lincoln Fees: One-hour: £50 Individuals, £60 Couples. One hour 30 minutes couple session: £80.
London Fees: One-hour sessions: £85. One hour 30 minutes: £105.
Skype/email counselling: 30 minutes: £30.

First appointment: extra time is allowed to take details at no additional cost.

Insurance/funded work undertaken. Reduced fees may be available in Lincoln in case of hardship, please ask.

It is important to feel happy with your therapist, so please email me for further details  to organise a no-obligation preliminary discussion.
Email, skype or telephone counselling by arrangement.

Further Information

Confidential city-centre office in Lincoln with private waiting room and disabled access. Flexible appointments, including evenings, offered when available.
London appointments: Tuesdays.

Please ring or email me for a free preliminary discussion, I may be able to put you in touch with the right person if it is not me.
Initial assessments are usually available at short notice.
Short-term (CBT and solution-focused) and long term work (psyschodynamic or psychoanalytic) available. For those who prefer a more practical way of working I offer workshops for couples, individuals and groups on anger, conflict, communication and stress management.
In-house training for counsellors and organisations.

Advice on Abuse and Domestic Violence for partners, parents.  Written Assessments for Social Workers and Solicitors.
Experienced with Armed Services couples.
Referrals from GPs, Solicitors and individuals welcome.

  • Online, email or telephone counselling available

Member Organisation(s)

Registered / Accredited Counsellor or Psychotherapist

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