Since reports of child sex abuse in football were made public, more and more victims are coming forward. So far, over 300 ex-footballers have come forward, reporting traumatic incidents taking place during their younger years.
On 16th November, Andy Woodward waived his right to anonymity to speak out about the incidents. Since then, several other former players have done the same. Woodward revealed how his encounter ‘wrecked his life’ and spoke about his later struggles with depression and anxiety.
Since the scandal was revealed, at least 83 potential suspects have been identified and, in London alone, more than 100 allegations have been made. As a result of this, helplines and support organisations have been set up to help those affected – the NSPCC helpline received 860 calls in the first week and three weeks later, more than 1,700 calls have been made.
Since 1st November, we’ve received more than 1,150 sessions to our sexual abuse page and 15 emails sent to our members. That’s 17% increase on the previous month.
Is counselling an option?
One former footballer has spoken openly about how counselling helped him cope and how this part of his journey has given him the confidence to talk about his experience.
Keeping the abuse quiet for so many years can have a lasting effect on the victim. As an adult survivor, feelings of shame, guilt and anger can surface, which when untreated, can lead to mental health concerns, such as anxiety and depression.
Counselling can be an option for victims of abuse – it is a safe, calm environment where a person can talk about their experiences without fear of being judged. There are many reasons why a person does not speak up about abuse – one may include not knowing where to turn or who to talk to. Counselling offers a place to talk to an outsider, someone other than a loved one, who can simply listen.
Talking about it with a professional can help to dissolve the feelings of shame. They can offer guidance throughout the journey and be a supportive hand to hold through each step.